Women never really on my thoughts.

[FortunateSon]

Women don't seem to bother me anymore. I am not bothered if I score women or not, don't want a relationship, not even bothered I get laid, all of it doesn't seem important to me these days.

I started the gym in July and I am addicted to it, I am starting to develop my abdominals, I am running, rowing and biking a lot to increase my fitness levels. I've taken up a few hobbies, some of those are Go-Kart racing, going to see live bands, playing soccer with friends on a weekly basis and I am focusing on preparing myself for my dream job.

I feel a lot happier and more relaxed in life now that I am not focusing solely on women and I am enjoying it so much that there is no real incentive to try and score women because they're not important to me these days. I couldn't care less if a woman said yes or no to me if I did approach her.

I feel competent and good with this perspective, but my friends find it strange. I am usually their wingman and I am not even interested in doing that anymore.

Have I achieved some form of DJism with this?

 

[Tiguere]

You have the right mindset but sex is a NEED not a WANT. Are you getting it? Is part of the hierarchy of needs if you want to reach the highest form of happiness

 

[European-DJ]

Karting SUPERB HOBBY THERE!


- As the other guy said, you need sex. It's in your genes.

On the other hand, i know a lot of guys who enjoy life without women, a lot of theese guys are HUGE Nerds, probably never get laid, not even a kiss.. But imho, they have NOT reached any kind of Dj'Ism by doing that.

But atleast it seems like you does not have fear, a GREAT thing !

 

[Myrrdin]

It's Zen

 

[ArcBound]

Well the words Don Juan always imply a man good with the ladies... but I believe you achieved fulfillment in other aspects of your life. That is the main component that separates the "Don Juanism" taught on this site vs PUA teachings.

You are more social, you are improving yourself and you are having fun. Those are major achievements in and out of themselves.

 

[Atom Smasher]

OP, it sounds like you are indeed a Fortunate Son.

There will come a time when your focus will shift back to the ladies, but for now, enjoy what you are doing as you design your life.

 

[Myrrdin]

For the record... I've never MB-ed...

And I feel the same as the OP. No subjugation by the pu$$y.

Feels awesome. Feels free...