"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lordeterra

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As a man, I know how easy it is to let your life go to ****. If your truly a man striving for excellence you KNOW even one soda can fvck up your whole success you’ve built (if you think this is insane you are clearly not reaching excellence and have given up on your highest dreams). Now imagine how fvcked women are. They do drufs party waste time slew around watch tv and do things that are actually anti productivity.
And your chasing this?!?!?! Fvck that. Build yourself and build your life and they will come and you get to choose who is allowed in the joint don you’ve built. To be honest you won’t get to this point until your in your mid 30s or 40s unless your a super stud from the start lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guy69JackBlue

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As a man, I know how easy it is to let your life go to ****. If your truly a man striving for excellence you KNOW even one soda can fvck up your whole success you’ve built (if you think this is insane you are clearly not reaching excellence and have given up on your highest dreams). Now imagine how fvcked women are. They do drufs party waste time slew around watch tv and do things that are actually anti productivity.
And your chasing this?!?!?! Fvck that. Build yourself and build your life and they will come and you get to choose who is allowed in the joint don you’ve built. To be honest you won’t get to this point until your in your mid 30s or 40s unless your a super stud from the start lol

Don't generalize so much.

I only drink sugar-free soda. Aspartame is not bad for you.

 

Velasco

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Build yourself and build your life and they will come and you get to choose who is allowed in the joint don you’ve built.
I don't know of one person who is living out this meme. the millionaires i've seen on here and elsewhere (IRL) pay for hookers. not exactly "they will come". The rest of us, simply put ourselves in the best positions to get what we want

as i've heard it elsewhere:

In a practical sense, 99% of the time the man chooses who he interacts with.

By culture/custom, women can only choose to be with the guys that are trying to get their attention.

Because of this dynamic, As a man, I always get what I go after.

To be more clear, the only things I have in life, are things that I pursued. They are of my efforts. So everything I have, I chose.
 

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As a man, I know how easy it is to let your life go to ****. If your truly a man striving for excellence you KNOW even one soda can fvck up your whole success you’ve built (if you think this is insane you are clearly not reaching excellence and have given up on your highest dreams). Now imagine how fvcked women are. They do drufs party waste time slew around watch tv and do things that are actually anti productivity.
And your chasing this?!?!?! Fvck that. Build yourself and build your life and they will come and you get to choose who is allowed in the joint don you’ve built. To be honest you won’t get to this point until your in your mid 30s or 40s unless your a super stud from the start lol
Sadly, with BDG, no, they don't.
 
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