"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women my age - disgraceful

Korrupt

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I yearn for the day when a girl will come along and restore my faith in the female gender.

All I see is:

-Bullsh!t
-Lying
-Flaking
-Passive-aggressiveness
-Teasing
-Extreme, ungodly attention whoring

I would have listed cheating too, but I've never experienced it first-hand (or had a chance to experience it) because I haven't found a girl worthy of starting a relationship with.

I don't like using the words "real" and "fake" to describe people, but for lack of a better word, I don't think I've ever met a girl who was completely "real" (i.e. genuine)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VladPatton

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It's in all age groups, man, don't be fooled. Filter, filter, filter.
 

Crazystarf

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Isn't passive agressive a feminine trait anyways? Meaning all women are like that to a point?

The others I get your point. Filter the chicks that have those traits and you're bound to catch something.
 

SamTheHobit

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Bro you need to start meeting alot more girls.
And with a little luck you may just score a virgin.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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