“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women monkey branching

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Chances that she'll cheat/stray are always fairly strong... We, as a species, aren't hardwired to remain with one mate for decades on end
And that is why character is the single most important thing in a woman.

But you yourself must posses solid character to attract a woman of good character.

Our nature is one thing. Our character, if good or godly or however you'd like to call it overrules our nature. Marriage and committment are choices we make: choices we choose to uphold every day through our actions.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Our nature is one thing. Our character, if good or godly or however you'd like to call it overrules our nature
In some contexts and some scenarios, sure... According to Anne Rule, Ted Bundy was nothing less than a gentleman, when they worked together at that rape crisis center. Clearly, his character wasn't nearly so saintly off-hours


There's data out there indicating that a large percentage of folks who are in long-term marriages have, at least once, enjoyed a side-dish of some sort, even if only once on a weekend away from home. Our refusal to admit that even infidelity-like everything else in life-happens in degrees, has done us fewer favors than mulling over whether or not First Person Shooter VGs single-handedly create the occasional Klebold and Harris
 
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Every man has to face the reality of nature. And it's this. Nature doesn't give a damn about your feelings: your sadness, your loneliness, your happiness. Nature could care less.

And it is Nature that drives a woman to be hypergamous -- to always look for the better, tougher, stronger man than the one she has now. Evolution has hard-wired it into their brains. Find the best man I can -- and that is always the most confident, the most self assured man, the ones who in their mind any woman would want (which makes that woman want you more).

Find that man...suck up his genetic material.

The impulse is not evil, it is evolutionary.

Of course, if you take it to the logical extreme, you find the warden's wife running off with the 1st degree murderer. But alas, such stories are a matter of degree.

Don't get me wrong. I love feminine women.
I will be honest, the more I deal with women, the more grounded and down to earth I become.
But before you can become a real man, you have to stare into the black abyss that is nature's way of ensuring the triumph of our species and not flinch.

Look into the blackness...know that it is nature.
Study the game. Become a hedonist if you want.

In other words, go out, work at something you love, have great experiences traveling, reading great books, eating and drinking well... while fvcking your brains out as much as you can.

I am 34 and younger than most of the seasoned senior members here, still ran with the best of em but let me tell you, time is finite. But I am going to drink great wine, help my clients do business better, and fvck like an animal.

Until my ashes get scattered over the ocean.
 
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What you want to bang is different than what you want to marry, sometimes it can be the same thing but most of the times they are separate things
 

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Man should pre-select properly during dating process.

If e.g. her mother is a 304 (having children from various men would be rather good indicator alas there are exceptions) or father is typical NPC and mother runs the house then there is a risk that girl will be fully indoctrinated into new waves of feminism and properly a poor partner material, ready to monkey branch if "better prospect" will come around. Same goes for people coming from families with no values whatsoever.

You want a girl that will be faithful - look at the character, ask about body count etc. observe and do verify facts about her past as any man or woman that enter your life will affect you this way or the other.
 

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Man should pre-select properly during dating process.

If e.g. her mother is a 304 (having children from various men would be rather good indicator alas there are exceptions) or father is typical NPC and mother runs the house then there is a risk that girl will be fully indoctrinated into new waves of feminism and properly a poor partner material, ready to monkey branch if "better prospect" will come around. Same goes for people coming from families with no values whatsoever.

You want a girl that will be faithful - look at the character, ask about body count etc. observe and do verify facts about her past as any man or woman that enter your life will affect you this way or the other.
Same principles apply for guy friends as well , you have to vet them for character and values first before actually becoming close friend
 

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Better is subjective. It’s all in your head. I’ve noticed women respond to how they feel at the moment. Many women have enough self control to not do it. Many don’t. As @BackInTheGame78 said, focus on what you can control.

Let the chips fall as they may
 
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