Every man has to face the reality of nature. And it's this. Nature doesn't give a damn about your feelings: your sadness, your loneliness, your happiness. Nature could care less.
And it is Nature that drives a woman to be hypergamous -- to always look for the better, tougher, stronger man than the one she has now. Evolution has hard-wired it into their brains. Find the best man I can -- and that is always the most confident, the most self assured man, the ones who in their mind any woman would want (which makes that woman want you more).
Find that man...suck up his genetic material.
The impulse is not evil, it is evolutionary.
Of course, if you take it to the logical extreme, you find the warden's wife running off with the 1st degree murderer. But alas, such stories are a matter of degree.
Don't get me wrong. I love feminine women.
I will be honest, the more I deal with women, the more grounded and down to earth I become.
But before you can become a real man, you have to stare into the black abyss that is nature's way of ensuring the triumph of our species and not flinch.
Look into the blackness...know that it is nature.
Study the game. Become a hedonist if you want.
In other words, go out, work at something you love, have great experiences traveling, reading great books, eating and drinking well... while fvcking your brains out as much as you can.
I am 34 and younger than most of the seasoned senior members here, still ran with the best of em but let me tell you, time is finite. But I am going to drink great wine, help my clients do business better, and fvck like an animal.
Until my ashes get scattered over the ocean.