You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nothings stopping you from posting a positive story to counter it you mewling cream puff.Gro0ver said:I knew who this thread was by before I even saw. This negativity is getting old![]()
I doubt groover the mewling( . )( . ) said:Nothings stopping you from posting a positive story to counter it you mewling cream puff.
Be the change you want to see.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Media portrayal of "sexy" is what I was getting at.Warrior74 said:That's just terrible statistics there PlayHer Man. Really it's worse than christians cherry picking on which parts of the bible to listen to.
Go back and pick a. the same line of work. b. the same age. c. from the same country. Then you might begin to make a valid and logical point. Otherwise you're just spewing propaganda mate. Fix up. I get your point and I agree it's somewhat valid, but it's poor science and thus is no PROOF, its just an opinion with photos.
Faggots are no threat to the statePlayHer Man said:. The point is.. the masculine man is no longer glorified. We glorify the faggot.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I get you. And by "we" you mean the media and women. I don't know any men, wusses or otherwise who glorify bieber and that weird dude. Those are musicians which throughout history have been gay or gender nuetrual or just weird. Again, show me the wussy blockbuster action movie star and the wussy bodybuilder and the wussy MMA fighter. The men that other men look up to don't fit your narrative. But we can say they do if that's what you're into.PlayHer Man said:Media portrayal of "sexy" is what I was getting at.
The alpha male is no longer glorified. Men are encouraged to be beta males and women are encouraged to seek beta males for "serious" relationships.
OF COURSE there were girly men from the baby boomer generation and of course there are masculine men in Generation Y. The point is.. the masculine man is no longer glorified. We glorify the faggot.
I see what you mean. But even in the music world you can see a transition over time.Warrior74 said:I get you. And by "we" you mean the media and women. I don't know any men, wusses or otherwise who glorify bieber and that weird dude. Those are musicians which throughout history have been gay or gender nuetrual or just weird. Again, show me the wussy blockbuster action movie star and the wussy bodybuilder and the wussy MMA fighter. The men that other men look up to don't fit your narrative. But we can say they do if that's what you're into.