You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nothings stopping you from posting a positive story to counter it you mewling cream puff.Gro0ver said:I knew who this thread was by before I even saw. This negativity is getting old![]()
I doubt groover the mewling( . )( . ) said:Nothings stopping you from posting a positive story to counter it you mewling cream puff.
Be the change you want to see.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Media portrayal of "sexy" is what I was getting at.Warrior74 said:That's just terrible statistics there PlayHer Man. Really it's worse than christians cherry picking on which parts of the bible to listen to.
Go back and pick a. the same line of work. b. the same age. c. from the same country. Then you might begin to make a valid and logical point. Otherwise you're just spewing propaganda mate. Fix up. I get your point and I agree it's somewhat valid, but it's poor science and thus is no PROOF, its just an opinion with photos.
Faggots are no threat to the statePlayHer Man said:. The point is.. the masculine man is no longer glorified. We glorify the faggot.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I get you. And by "we" you mean the media and women. I don't know any men, wusses or otherwise who glorify bieber and that weird dude. Those are musicians which throughout history have been gay or gender nuetrual or just weird. Again, show me the wussy blockbuster action movie star and the wussy bodybuilder and the wussy MMA fighter. The men that other men look up to don't fit your narrative. But we can say they do if that's what you're into.PlayHer Man said:Media portrayal of "sexy" is what I was getting at.
The alpha male is no longer glorified. Men are encouraged to be beta males and women are encouraged to seek beta males for "serious" relationships.
OF COURSE there were girly men from the baby boomer generation and of course there are masculine men in Generation Y. The point is.. the masculine man is no longer glorified. We glorify the faggot.
I see what you mean. But even in the music world you can see a transition over time.Warrior74 said:I get you. And by "we" you mean the media and women. I don't know any men, wusses or otherwise who glorify bieber and that weird dude. Those are musicians which throughout history have been gay or gender nuetrual or just weird. Again, show me the wussy blockbuster action movie star and the wussy bodybuilder and the wussy MMA fighter. The men that other men look up to don't fit your narrative. But we can say they do if that's what you're into.