Women: made in womenland

[Pumax]

Hi fellow guys
I feel like every woman I met, every woman I talk too, every one of them, its actually the same woman.
They all react to the same things.
It feels like I don't weigh the difference in women anymore.

When I talk to a 6, its the same if I talk to a 9.
If i talk to a 30y.o single mom, its the same as I talk to a 18.yo. or 55.
Its as I see the same individual.

They're all attracted and interested by the same things.
They only have one mind, one thinking.
They are all equal.

I could try a playful game with an 18 year old and know that I would get the same reaction with the 50 year old too.
Their mind is programmed.
They all want the same things.

If you've ever had experiences with borderline women, or women who are thirsty, or savage, and you've had the luck to have learned from them, then you see something that others can't see, and you can touch the triggers in women.
Its like knowing things they enjoy, touching those triggers, and insist when you see them trying to hide that thing you did actually turned her on.

Before, you were scared or you didnt have the knowledge to do so.
But now, its like being a jet pilot, and knowing the place and function of each different button on the dashboard.

When you understand this as a man, you start to ask yourself sensible questions like, how do men trust women and engage in LTR with them when they understand that a simple gust of wind can change their minds, like it could change the direction of a flag?

Or better, how could a man make a significant relationship when everything is programmed for those multiple infatuations, crushes in a given lifetime?

For this reason, I dont either see having oneitis an issue, both from female and male POV.
That is our nature making us strong bonded to someone for a given time, until the next venue.

I just see it a problem if a man doesnt have the knowledge to turn on women.

Ps:
We might want to have a detailed topic who describe women triggers as a jet pilot dashboard, as simple as that

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Pumax "I feel like every woman I met, every woman I talk too, every one of them, its actually the same woman"

Straight/straightish women are part of the human race, thus they don't differ DRAMATICALLY from one another???!!! Next, we'll learn that most full blooded heterosexual men in our species

-Gravitate towards fiction like Mad Men, The 007 flicks, anything directed by Mike Mann, Sons Of Anarchy, and Conan The Barbarian(1982)

-Aren't thrilled by Big Brother, clerics, or/and activists dictating every nuance of our lives

-Prefer to devote more time towards our careers than we do being at home with toddlers

 

[Gamisch]

You're absolutely right.

Thats why I say first off all a man HAS to experience whats it like to have a woman 100000% in to him. Because as you say , ALL WOMEN will actually the same with a guy they really really want. They'll be psychopathic, jealous, weird ,silly ,horny, nasty, risky sexual behaviour, wanting to talk for hours ect.

Soon as a woman does NOT act like this it means she is NOT into you like that...

Now , life ofcourse never is completely black and white thus the way a woman responds can be different. She might wanna be a mother ao badly that she will let a dude impregnate her while she know the dude won't stay for various reasons. She might feel social pressure and be a in relationship with a man she doesn't really like. She might go on dates or actually date a guy because of logistics and money.

But it always comes down to the same ol' game. And thats something that 99% of men can or won't accept. For example;

Many men I know (most) tried EVERYTHING in their power to obtain a relationship with any woman...some went 3rd world shopping, others bought houses with women that constantly disrespect them. Basically believing that "this one will ne different ". Meanwhile she's feeling so so about him and he is a constan denial.

If she doesn't give you 100% , she is NOT into you ,period. You can have four kids with a woman who actually doesn't like you...

 

[Pumax]

Meanwhile she's feeling so so about him and he is a constan denial.

Yes that is my experience too.

But

They'll be psychopathic, jealous, weird ,silly ,horny, nasty, risky sexual behaviour, wanting to talk for hours ect.

I cannot agree with this.

A good woman has interest in you, but she also love/respect herself, so that she still have an equilibrium, even thos therell be times when she will be your best sex for example.
But yes, you will have the best sex with a psycho woman, not with a LT GF.

But our POV its actually the same on this topic. We see many different women as the same one.

You can have four kids with a woman who actually doesn't like you

Totally. The LTR and You are both in her agenda, rather than you showing the way.

Most italian women I've met are good ones, but they all have the same defect they've learnt from their mothers/grandmothers, which is not to submit to a man agenda, but rather find a man who can submit to them, so they ca feel secure.
(Just look at giorgia meloni, that is your italian woman archetype)

 

[Bokanovsky]

Hi fellow guys
I feel like every woman I met, every woman I talk too, every one of them, its actually the same woman.
They all react to the same things.
It feels like I don't weigh the difference in women anymore.

When I talk to a 6, its the same if I talk to a 9.
If i talk to a 30y.o single mom, its the same as I talk to a 18.yo. or 55.
Its as I see the same individual.

They're all attracted and interested by the same things.
They only have one mind, one thinking.
They are all equal.

I could try a playful game with an 18 year old and know that I would get the same reaction with the 50 year old too.
Their mind is programmed.
They all want the same things.

If you've ever had experiences with borderline women, or women who are thirsty, or savage, and you've had the luck to have learned from them, then you see something that others can't see, and you can touch the triggers in women.
Its like knowing things they enjoy, touching those triggers, and insist when you see them trying to hide that thing you did actually turned her on.

Before, you were scared or you didnt have the knowledge to do so.
But now, its like being a jet pilot, and knowing the place and function of each different button on the dashboard.

When you understand this as a man, you start to ask yourself sensible questions like, how do men trust women and engage in LTR with them when they understand that a simple gust of wind can change their minds, like it could change the direction of a flag?

Or better, how could a man make a significant relationship when everything is programmed for those multiple infatuations, crushes in a given lifetime?

For this reason, I dont either see having oneitis an issue, both from female and male POV.
That is our nature making us strong bonded to someone for a given time, until the next venue.

I just see it a problem if a man doesnt have the knowledge to turn on women.

Ps:
We might want to have a detailed topic who describe women triggers as a jet pilot dashboard, as simple as that

The same can be said of men too. Everyone is interested in the same sh!t, everyone is a walking stereotype, anyone who is different is considered "weird". This is entirely by design.

 

[The Duke]

Ive never thought there was much difference from woman to woman. They all get emotional, run at least a little insecure, triggered by the same things, mood swings, not as rational as men, worried about their looks, yada yada yada. The difference is to what degree.

Figure out what works for you and the road is a lot more pleasant.

 

[plumber]

You're absolutely right.

Thats why I say first off all a man HAS to experience whats it like to have a woman 100000% in to him. Because as you say , ALL WOMEN will actually the same with a guy they really really want. They'll be psychopathic, jealous, weird ,silly ,horny, nasty, risky sexual behaviour, wanting to talk for hours ect.

Soon as a woman does NOT act like this it means she is NOT into you like that...

Now , life ofcourse never is completely black and white thus the way a woman responds can be different. She might wanna be a mother ao badly that she will let a dude impregnate her while she know the dude won't stay for various reasons. She might feel social pressure and be a in relationship with a man she doesn't really like. She might go on dates or actually date a guy because of logistics and money.

But it always comes down to the same ol' game. And thats something that 99% of men can or won't accept. For example;

Many men I know (most) tried EVERYTHING in their power to obtain a relationship with any woman...some went 3rd world shopping, others bought houses with women that constantly disrespect them. Basically believing that "this one will ne different ". Meanwhile she's feeling so so about him and he is a constan denial.

If she doesn't give you 100% , she is NOT into you ,period. You can have four kids with a woman who actually doesn't like you...

there is a paradox about this. to be healthy for ourself we can simply not care so much if she is into us. sounds lazy on the surface...

yes it feels really good to be her priority. it is also very addicting....

don't give that analysis so much thought, just go with the flow.

she is going do what she is going to do. so don't get twisted when she does bad and don't get silly when she does good.

yes hold the line, but don't spend all day inspecting the line.

if she makes you feel so much better, then what you are doing needs to be updated so that your already happy.

the question we almost always get wrong is who to blame if she is getting it with the other guy.... there are three choices, us,her,the other guy.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Litmus test:

Introduce any gal you have designs on to The Handbook For New Stoics. If she's intrigued and eager to learn more, your likely ROI is strong. If she bristles, and starts yapping about Systemic Forces and Late Stage Capitalism, call it a day, and move on

The latter breed are too deep into "Womanland" to keep their sh-t together, when the sailing ceases to be smooth, as is inevitable during the course of human existence