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I think we're splitting hairs.

Most of us agree that sex sells, and men AND women buy into it.
Depends. For me these informations were important. I think many guys did not understand the underlying physical mechanisms. Some might get a bit shocked after digesting the information.
 

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I agree that women like sex just as much as us but they have the ability to self regulate themselves and not have sex just because they can, unlike us guys.

A part of this obviously has to do with the abundance they have at their finger tips.

I've heard from from several women including three of my current plates that they are just fine masturbating rather than trying to find just any male to have sex with. That's the big difference IMO. We are just looking for any sexy holes to put our stuff into. They are looking more for a complete package(most except slvts with impulsive tendencies).

One of my plates, I saw this weekend actually surprised me and told me she still masturbates once or twice in a week even though she still see's me twice a week.
 

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I agree that women like sex just as much as us but they have the ability to self regulate themselves and not have sex just because they can, unlike us guys.

A part of this obviously has to do with the abundance they have at their finger tips.

I've heard from from several women including three of my current plates that they are just fine masturbating rather than trying to find just any male to have sex with. That's the big difference IMO. We are just looking for any sexy holes to put our stuff into. They are looking more for a complete package(most except slvts with impulsive tendencies).

One of my plates, I saw this weekend actually surprised me and told me she still masturbates once or twice in a week even though she still see's me twice a week.
It would be interesting to know what they imagine while masturbating

Google says they fantasize about the same things as mens do.

Btw again:

" A 1977 survey of couples who had been married for 20 years found that men wanted more sex than their wives. As Baumeister and his colleagues write, "Wives consistently reported that they were quite satisfied with the amount of sex they had in their marriages, but men on average wished for about a 50 percent increase." A study of elderly couples from Sweden, a country that is sexually progressive, also found that married men wanted more sex than women. "Men are significantly more sexual than women, in all ages and in all respects," wrote the authors of that study.

One way to examine the sexual differences between men and women is to compare the amount of sex gay men and lesbian women are having. The research here indicates that women are far more monogamous than men. In one study, 82 percent of gay men reported having had sex outside of their relationship whereas only 28 percent of lesbians did. Over 40 percent of gay men in relationships reported having had more than 20 partners outside of their relationship while only 1 percent of lesbians did. In a 1978 study, four out of ten gay men reported having over 500 sexual partners while no lesbians did. This was, of course, before AIDS changed the equation.

When sex happens, it is because the woman has changed her vote from no to yes." In a classic 1989 study, for instance, attractive research assistants approached men and women of the opposite sex on a college campus and asked: "I've been noticing you around campus and I think you're attractive. Would you like to go to bed with me tonight?" Three quarters of men said yes. Exactly zero women did. "

 
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Those women go insane without sex. What they mean is, they can masturbate for a month or two.
Only slvts with weak mindsets can go only for a month or two masturbating. Any quality women will be able to control themselves and only have sex when they meet someone they like other than to just have sex with. I've met quite a few that were to themselves for a year or two.
 

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You miss the point. The orgasms women have, if they have a skilled lover, FAR surpass anything a man can experience. FAR surpass. And yes the ****oris is involved. That is where the orgasms come from. Penetration is the least of the sex act.

My ex gf and I had lengthy conversations about this. She told me numerous times how much she felt bad for men that they could only have one.

I have seen their eyes roll back in their heads, their bodies go into convulsions, they have broken into tears, laid in bed shaking for 10 seconds afterwards. I was in disbelief sometimes.

If you have never seen this, you are doing ALOT wrong.

Now sex DRIVE is a different matter. They have 12-17 times less testosterone than men. But once you get them into the act, their ability to experience pleasure far exceeds ours.
Because your girls were like that doesn't mean much. It could be the exception. That is why we have statistical research.

Above I copied the comparison of lesbians with gays. The difference is quite big.
 

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Again - women do not have the sex DRIVE men have. However, a woman's ability to experience pleasure once engaged in sex, FAR surpasses men's.

Ok, have it your way. Women don't like sex.

I will just carry on, continuing to prove you wrong.
Maybe a bit more scientifical evidence and less anecdotal might help.
 

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I surprise myself sometimes, haha. But all the above is true. The one whose eyes rolled back in her head? That scared the **** outta me. She was on top, and started shuddering then just froze and was silent and stiff for about 5 seconds....and I **** you not, her eyes rolled back in her head for the whole time.

I thought I might be in a secret taping of the Exorcist
Again - women do not have the sex DRIVE men have. However, a woman's ability to experience pleasure once engaged in sex, FAR surpasses men's.

Ok, have it your way. Women don't like sex.

I will just carry on, continuing to prove you wrong.
Most guys just don't wanna accept it. I know it scares them but it is what it is that these women like to fyck. That's why a lot of women cheat cause they say most guys can't fully satisfy them in the bedroom.
 

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You miss the point. The orgasms women have, if they have a skilled lover, FAR surpass anything a man can experience. FAR surpass. And yes the ****oris is involved. That is where the orgasms come from. Penetration is the least of the sex act.

My ex gf and I had lengthy conversations about this. She told me numerous times how much she felt bad for men that they could only have one.

I have seen their eyes roll back in their heads, their bodies go into convulsions, they have broken into tears, laid in bed shaking for 10 seconds afterwards. I was in disbelief sometimes.

If you have never seen this, you are doing ALOT wrong.

Now sex DRIVE is a different matter. They have 12-17 times less testosterone than men. But once you get them into the act, their ability to experience pleasure far exceeds ours.
I have seen this. It is amazing. I've had powerful orgasms inside a woman's vagina where once I removed the condom, I would feel quite lightheaded.

I've seen that happen with some girlfriends over time. Their orgasms are often more powerful than mine.

Most guys just don't wanna accept it. I know it scares them but it is what it is that these women like to fyck. That's why a lot of women cheat cause they say most guys can't fully satisfy them in the bedroom.
Yes
 

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I shake my head when I read comments like OP's.

I've said this many times here, but I'll say it again. There are three stages men go through when understanding women:

Stage 1. Women Don't like sex as much as men.
  • The average women doesn't watch porn and even if she does, it's lesbian porn or gay porn (basically, not traditional porn).
  • There are no equivalent nude magazines for women that are/were as popular as Playboy etc, etc.
  • How many times has a random woman come up to you and asked you to fvck her? Even if she's attracted to you (phycsically), you still need to make the appraoch FIRST.
  • If you have eyes and have a brain, it's obvious to see women don't behave the same way as men when it comes to sex.
  • Much like boob size is an obseesion among women more than it is among men, penis size is an obsession among men more than it is with women (the larger the penis, the more it hurts in REALITY). Besides, women only see the size of your **** once they've ALREADY made the decision to sleep with you.
Stage 2. Women like sex just much as we (men) do.
  • Look at pornstars right? They like sex, don't they? Only, they love the attention they receive more than anything else. Look at Instagram? Tik Tok? Women will find any medium to get attention, doing porn being the extreme. Also notice pornstars receive more money to do the same things as the men.
  • We all know sluts don't we? They also have the same problem. They love the attention being a slut gives them more than anything else. Women can go days, weeks and months without sex and be completely okay with it.
  • You won't believe me when I say this, but most women don't know their bodies very well and think there's something wrong with them if they don't like sex the way society is telling them to like it.
Stage 3. Is it possible BOTH Stage 1 and 2 are true? Yes. Women love sex just as much as men, but they approach sex in a DIFFERENT way to men.
  • The best way to describe the different appraoches to sex between men and women is this: Men want sex NOW, women want sex LATER.
  • Men want sex now, because we are PROACTIVE, we are the aggressors. We are turned on much more by how a woman LOOKS.
  • Women want sex later, because they are REACTIVE. Women must have trust first, they are also attracted to STRONG and DOMINANT men. When I say strong and dominant, I don't mean men who have muscles and when I say dominant, I don't mean men who are into ****.
  • Strong and dominant men are in control of their emotions, they think with their head FIRST and their PENIS later, because they are able to delay instant gratification.
  • Women grave sex with men who control the situation, who don't react and more improtantly, men who don't need sex from them.
  • Women are like kettles, they need men who know what they are doing to heat them up, you might call this foreplay, but it has little to do with anything physcial.
 

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Those women go insane without sex. What they mean is, they can masturbate for a month or two.
If a f*ist read this many of them would laugh uncontrollably.

Personally i don't agree. It depends upon the person.

In my experience, womens "Karen" levels increase when they are sexless. They become more angry, quicker to judgement, more negative so it enhances any levels of "bitchy" and "azzhole" behaviors that they may have.

This is quite a few women, some who intentionally stay away from sex too. Some of those women might be "f*ist". And some of those might be "f*ist" and won't allow any or much penetration because they don't want their "masculinity" levels to decrease from "submitting" to a man into intercourse.

Isn't that something?
 

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Another difference between them could be that men find girls hotter naked but women don't it seems.

That is one reason why nobody cares for men showing skin in advertising besides some few gay guys.
 

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Bruh, not the women who meet Samspade. They want it now.
They need to read some of them romance novels and see how them women be discussing their sexual fantasies. It would scared them that females have strong sexual desires. The gentleman saying women fyck later no they fyck him later but when they meet a guy they highly sexually attracted to they gonna fyck him now.
 
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