"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women like this are why I dont pay for First Dates

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aaron B said:
As the man, I'm expected to risk rejection and approach her, get her number, and invite her on a date.

As the initiator, I choose the date activity. She either chooses to comply or she doesn't.

Since I'm not dependent on this one woman for dates, I don't allow her to dictate to me. I lead, and if she wants to spend time with me, she follows.
My sentiments exactly Aaron.

Going out to dinner don't happen unless we've f**ked. If she wants dinner that bad, guess what? We cook! And if she don't wanna do that, she gets the boot.

This is where I will pound the gavel!

Case closed. Guys need to show a backbone for women like these!
 

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You should never offer to buy her a drink when you first meet her, and you don't have to buy a lavish meal on the first date (don't supplicate) . That said, you don't have to avoid paying for the first date and buying an appetizer at the bar either (don't be cheap).

Ok, so she is using him for money, and he is using her for beauty (sex with one). We're not the same. We have different incentives. What is the problem? Want to see where the limits end? Go to a strip club where there are lots of hot (broke) women competing. It's a function of how good looking you are minus how good looking they are (degree days).

An Alpha male is generous.
 

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jafyk said:
W I did skim through the article and saw a place the lady said she would pay if the guy asked.
Well that's why you read the whole article before commenting. A few paragraphs later she completely contradicts herself as I showed.

Next time you make a post I'll be sure to only skim and argue based on what I read.
 

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It is really good social practise for WBAFC guys to pay for dinner dates with women and have some social practise at the same time. After all, her company being there is free. If you look at the overall market dynamics, people pay escorts to go on dinner dates with them - sometimes for practise, or to make an impression on their friends of seeing him with a hot girl that is pretending to enjoy herself with him (social proof).

If you don't like a particular arrangement, then don't go for it. It doesn't mean there are men out there who would not benefit from what arrangement if you won't.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ArcBound said:
Well that's why you read the whole article before commenting. A few paragraphs later she completely contradicts herself as I showed.

Next time you make a post I'll be sure to only skim and argue based on what I read.
Ha ha my man. I'm guilty as charged but remember 2 wrongs don't make a right.
 
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I hope she uses her fifteen minutes of fame to fix her nose.

I don't blame women like her, she's just doing what she can to have a good life, enjoy the good life, it's these stupid men that take women out to expensive restaurants and throw their money about the place that are to blame.

You should never invest your hard earned money into a woman that hasn't earned that priviledge. My dates are relatively inexpensive because I don't believe you need to spend extravagant amounts of money on a date to have a good date.

My best date was taking a girl out to a bar and getting hammered with her, dancing with each other and going back to hers and getting it on. We actually brought each other drinks in and the drinks were relatively cheap, so we ended up spending about 30 each which isn't much in all fairness.
 

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Holy ****, who would pay anything for her? She is looking at camera #1 and her nose is looking at camera #5.

I think it's pretty bad that the article was trying to make her out to be traditional. A traditional ***** maybe.
 
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