Good points but I would add a corollary to that rule. A man who LOOKS like he can fight to women is attractive to them. The tall athletic dude will still get women irrespective of his actual fighting ability.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women like men who can fight and you are a p.ussy if you think otherwise
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Agree but sadly for most of us the opposite is true as well, the 5'8 ufc light weight champions with his shirt on wouldnt exactly impress any woman.ArcBound said:
boxers are essentially helpless if you attack or defend against them from the ground. They don't have a CLUE how to defend or attack a guy who is down there.
On your back, sort of, palms on the ground,but also on your feet, "crab" sort of movement by pressing down with hands. You can sort of scuttle towards a guy, he is unaware of the risk, then you use bottom of your foot, turned sideways, in stomping sort of motion, to bend his knee backwards. you can "bicycle" kick to keep him off of you, one foot then the other, you use hands to swivel around on your butt, stay facing him. If he bends over, kick at his face or chest, if he sidesteps, use ball of the foot roundhouse kicks, if he gets close enough, use your spear hand to his face, or ridgehand to his temple. VERY few people know how to REALLY hurt you. Most hurt their HANDS a LOT worse than their little wussy punches hurt your head. Once you REALLY understand that, and have learned to block, twist, cover up, etc, and have REALLY hardened your abs, you will laugh at unarmed people. But it's always best to ccw a pistol, in case one or more of them snatches up a chair or pulls a knife, breaks a bottle, etc. Then it's perfectly ok (legally) to shoot him, as long as he's within 10-12 ft, that is.
On your back, sort of, palms on the ground,but also on your feet, "crab" sort of movement by pressing down with hands. You can sort of scuttle towards a guy, he is unaware of the risk, then you use bottom of your foot, turned sideways, in stomping sort of motion, to bend his knee backwards. you can "bicycle" kick to keep him off of you, one foot then the other, you use hands to swivel around on your butt, stay facing him. If he bends over, kick at his face or chest, if he sidesteps, use ball of the foot roundhouse kicks, if he gets close enough, use your spear hand to his face, or ridgehand to his temple. VERY few people know how to REALLY hurt you. Most hurt their HANDS a LOT worse than their little wussy punches hurt your head. Once you REALLY understand that, and have learned to block, twist, cover up, etc, and have REALLY hardened your abs, you will laugh at unarmed people. But it's always best to ccw a pistol, in case one or more of them snatches up a chair or pulls a knife, breaks a bottle, etc. Then it's perfectly ok (legally) to shoot him, as long as he's within 10-12 ft, that is."How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.