"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women like men who can fight and you are a p.ussy if you think otherwise

ArcBound

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Good points but I would add a corollary to that rule. A man who LOOKS like he can fight to women is attractive to them. The tall athletic dude will still get women irrespective of his actual fighting ability.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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ArcBound said:
Good points but I would add a corollary to that rule. A man who LOOKS like he can fight to women is attractive to them. The tall athletic dude will still get women irrespective of his actual fighting ability.
Agree but sadly for most of us the opposite is true as well, the 5'8 ufc light weight champions with his shirt on wouldnt exactly impress any woman.
 

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i <3 being able to fight.
 

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boxers are essentially helpless if you attack or defend against them from the ground. They don't have a CLUE how to defend or attack a guy who is down there.:)On your back, sort of, palms on the ground,but also on your feet, "crab" sort of movement by pressing down with hands. You can sort of scuttle towards a guy, he is unaware of the risk, then you use bottom of your foot, turned sideways, in stomping sort of motion, to bend his knee backwards. :) you can "bicycle" kick to keep him off of you, one foot then the other, you use hands to swivel around on your butt, stay facing him. If he bends over, kick at his face or chest, if he sidesteps, use ball of the foot roundhouse kicks, if he gets close enough, use your spear hand to his face, or ridgehand to his temple. VERY few people know how to REALLY hurt you. Most hurt their HANDS a LOT worse than their little wussy punches hurt your head. :) Once you REALLY understand that, and have learned to block, twist, cover up, etc, and have REALLY hardened your abs, you will laugh at unarmed people. But it's always best to ccw a pistol, in case one or more of them snatches up a chair or pulls a knife, breaks a bottle, etc. Then it's perfectly ok (legally) to shoot him, as long as he's within 10-12 ft, that is.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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