"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women like being used as objects during sex?

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Hi,

In Pook's 15 lessons he says that women like to be used as an object for sex. Can anyone confirm/deny this? As a man even I wouldn't want a woman using me as a sex object that exists only for her to get pleasure from. It would make me feel used, degraded, insignificant, and disrespected. Because of this I find it hard to imagine women actually wanting to be thought of in this way.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FairShake

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No, not really.

They may like it at the time, in the heat of the moment (and this is SOME not ALL) but they would regret it if you do so after you're finished.

Except for the ones who treat YOU like an object. Then it's all gravy for both.
 
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In my experience it's true, they want to be treated differently during the act itself. Most of them at least it seems to really get their juices going.
 
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