"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women like being used as objects during sex?

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Hi,

In Pook's 15 lessons he says that women like to be used as an object for sex. Can anyone confirm/deny this? As a man even I wouldn't want a woman using me as a sex object that exists only for her to get pleasure from. It would make me feel used, degraded, insignificant, and disrespected. Because of this I find it hard to imagine women actually wanting to be thought of in this way.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FairShake

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No, not really.

They may like it at the time, in the heat of the moment (and this is SOME not ALL) but they would regret it if you do so after you're finished.

Except for the ones who treat YOU like an object. Then it's all gravy for both.
 
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In my experience it's true, they want to be treated differently during the act itself. Most of them at least it seems to really get their juices going.
 
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