"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women Intimidate me

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I decided to put myself out there for once in my life but I have a lot of humps to get over. I don't know what it is but I'm really Intimidated by females. I have an ex who is white and I'm black. I saw a couple of women out today that were really cute, They were black girls. I got intimidated because I don't think I have the swagger to even try to talk to them. People are even shocked when I tell them I have a kid. The sad thing is I got really strong eye contact from one girl. I just would not have known what to say. I guess I'm saying I wish I had. The swagger the strong voice the confidence to just say. Look here baby gimme you #. Could you guys give some suggestion on how to improve on this area of my life
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok, no responses yet just thought someone would've commented by now my problem is confidence p.s I have court today wish me luck
 
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Good luck hommie.


I used to have this problem just recently. Pook helped me, especially his Perfection is Boring thread. Find it in the book of pook. Also do a book camp.


Sosuave is AFC my fiend. You getting help from an AFC. Progress requires approaching those females, crashing and burning, improving, and then success.
 
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thanks your the only one who responed, I go to court later today if I get time then I'll hit this field as hard as I can, when I get out
 
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