"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women Intimidate me

JustWuzzle

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I decided to put myself out there for once in my life but I have a lot of humps to get over. I don't know what it is but I'm really Intimidated by females. I have an ex who is white and I'm black. I saw a couple of women out today that were really cute, They were black girls. I got intimidated because I don't think I have the swagger to even try to talk to them. People are even shocked when I tell them I have a kid. The sad thing is I got really strong eye contact from one girl. I just would not have known what to say. I guess I'm saying I wish I had. The swagger the strong voice the confidence to just say. Look here baby gimme you #. Could you guys give some suggestion on how to improve on this area of my life
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JustWuzzle

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ok, no responses yet just thought someone would've commented by now my problem is confidence p.s I have court today wish me luck
 

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Good luck hommie.


I used to have this problem just recently. Pook helped me, especially his Perfection is Boring thread. Find it in the book of pook. Also do a book camp.


Sosuave is AFC my fiend. You getting help from an AFC. Progress requires approaching those females, crashing and burning, improving, and then success.
 

JustWuzzle

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thanks your the only one who responed, I go to court later today if I get time then I'll hit this field as hard as I can, when I get out
 
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