"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women in Japan

TheMainMan

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Anyone been to Japan?

How easy is it to pull women there?

I really want to hook up with some Japanese women. Got a bit into them recently.

Any advice on pulling out there?

Cheers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kdnash82

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I spent close to 3 years in Japan. My first few months there, I was very intimidated by them. I was pretty AFC then and catered to them. Bad move for american girls... Even worse for Japanese girls.

As time progressed, I figured them out to the point of where I would meet them on a Thursday night, and by Friday night, they were in my bed.

My advice not only for them, but for all women is this:

Don't be afraid. Talk to them. Show them that you're interested. When you find one at a particular spot and you guys hit it off nicely, stick with her. They will be quick to call you a playboy if you wander.

I usually frequent spots regularly everywhere I go. If you do this there and you're cool, the japanese guys will befriend you and take you to those cool spots where americans are off limits. They love american women, so if you can introduce them to your friends then you're golden.

Overall, have fun! Gambate ne!
 

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The Japanese are called the 'shy people' which actually means 'the arrogant people' but you'll find that out when you get there This means you have a HUGE advantage over 99% of Japanese men.
I'm not following that. Does this mean that Japanese women and men (or which?) are actually arrogant and confused with being shy (by who Americans?) How does an american man have an advantage over Japanese men then?

I have heard that American men can get Japanese girls in Japan fairly easily though.
 
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