I stand corrected. In that case she should go to jail.She was sending my screenshots with the volume of messages she was receiving
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I stand corrected. In that case she should go to jail.She was sending my screenshots with the volume of messages she was receiving
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Look what else she's been saying
[19/07, 22:40] : Something about when you say my name to me when we are talking on the phone it's just makes me feel all funny inside
[19/07, 22:49] But there is something in the way you say it just gets me
[19/07, 22:57] : You have a hard exterior but underneath it all you are soft but also a bit cheeky and naughty? X
[19/07, 23:01] : Can I say one thing I admire about you?
[19/07, 23:01] : me: Just one thing? Ha x
[19/07, 23:01] : I mean another thing I admire
[19/07, 23:02] : So I admire your confidence and how you make some feel at total ease x
[19/07, 23:03] : That you have control and have your life and yourself together x
[19/07, 23:05] You are so passionate about your family x
[19/07, 23:05] You want amazing things for your future
[19/07, 23:06] You are handsome and hot x
[19/07, 23:07] You have great values and clearly been brought up really well and I predict you take those values and treat a woman very well x
[19/07, 23:07] : You put others first before yourself x
[23:13]: I honestly feel I could chat to you about anything and everything x
[19/07, 23:13] : Just be my total self and that's rare as I usually have my guard up massively x
[19/07, 23:15] i want to see the side of you that you keep away from everyone else x
[19/07, 23:16] Ttust me you already are. But I'm sure you will see it all x
[19/07, 23:22] partner in crime, a team, a unit, a best friend
[19/07, 23:22]: Someone that brings out the best in you and supports your goals and dreams x
[19/07, 23:40] boy you are so so so wow x
[19/07, 23:59]e: Men like you are rare these days and it's so hard finding someone with values and principles these days x
[20/07, 01:20] How I would love to have your arms around me now x
Seriously where do i go from here???
Look what else she's been saying
[19/07, 22:40] : Something about when you say my name to me when we are talking on the phone it's just makes me feel all funny inside
[19/07, 22:49] But there is something in the way you say it just gets me
[19/07, 22:57] : You have a hard exterior but underneath it all you are soft but also a bit cheeky and naughty? X
[19/07, 23:01] : Can I say one thing I admire about you?
[19/07, 23:01] : me: Just one thing? Ha x
[19/07, 23:01] : I mean another thing I admire
[19/07, 23:02] : So I admire your confidence and how you make some feel at total ease x
[19/07, 23:03] : That you have control and have your life and yourself together x
[19/07, 23:05] You are so passionate about your family x
[19/07, 23:05] You want amazing things for your future
[19/07, 23:06] You are handsome and hot x
[19/07, 23:07] You have great values and clearly been brought up really well and I predict you take those values and treat a woman very well x
[19/07, 23:07] : You put others first before yourself x
[23:13]: I honestly feel I could chat to you about anything and everything x
[19/07, 23:13] : Just be my total self and that's rare as I usually have my guard up massively x
[19/07, 23:15] i want to see the side of you that you keep away from everyone else x
[19/07, 23:16] Ttust me you already are. But I'm sure you will see it all x
[19/07, 23:22] partner in crime, a team, a unit, a best friend
[19/07, 23:22]: Someone that brings out the best in you and supports your goals and dreams x
[19/07, 23:40] boy you are so so so wow x
[19/07, 23:59]e: Men like you are rare these days and it's so hard finding someone with values and principles these days x
[20/07, 01:20] How I would love to have your arms around me now x
Seriously where do i go from here???
Yeah I think this site works best when you've encountered some real trouble rather than just some fellow puppy love orbiters via text.Let OP learn the hard way for him experience will be the best teacher.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THIS!Jeez dude, untill you have fuked a chick, she is not yours..
So much this, sigh I hate to sound like the "old guy" but OP spin FERKING plates, that's the only way broEven after the lay, she's still not his. Women will shop around in the bedroom until they decided who in their playground deserves exclusivity (if she wants that).
Low ILHi All,
I met a great women earlier through the week n match.com, hit it off straight away got her number etc and since then we have spoke none stop through txts and phone calls.
The only problem is im busy all weekend and told her that i cant arrange a date. so we will probably go on one soon after.
Anyway this woman sounds like she has really fallen for me saying im rare and she never opens up to men and has here shield up to most men but i make her so comfortable etc etc
Shes told she sees my as a hard exterior but but a little cheeky and a bit softer on the inside which is perfect.
The only problem is I can see shes active online still and its making me very jealous!
She frequently sends me screenshots of her matches and messages etc and its literally upto the hundred mark!
What can i do about it? Is there any articles i can read, obviously i cant tell her to not go on to this dating site as i know it would be beta. Its just driving me crazy!
Please advise/ give me a slap!
Thanks All
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.