"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women hitting on you? *G*

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A thread where you can tell your stories of girls hitting on YOU, rather than u hitting on them. Has this ever happened to you? feel free to elaborate;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I walked up to this one chick and said: "Damn youz a fine mutha****a!".


Then she hit me.
 
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Originally posted by Levex
I walked up to this one chick and said: "Damn youz a fine mutha****a!".


Then she hit me.
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LOL!!:p

there is a difference between "hitting" you and "hitting on you.;)
 
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this summer, a group of 4 girls approached me askin' for the time. i told'em i didn't have a watch and i didn't chat with'em, because 3/4 were really ugly and the other one was *maybe* a 7. a week later, i was alone shootin' the ball in the goal at the soccer field. suddenly, a girl (she later would tell me she was one of the 4 that had approached me, unfortunately 1 of the uglies) came towards me and handed me her mobile, without sayin' anything. i answered and her father, on the phone, told me that her daughter liked me. i was entertained by the approach and i kept talkin with her all the afternoon. we exchanged numbers but luckily i don't think i'm goin' to see her again;-)
sh1t, this been a good summer, i got approached a dozen times and i approached just one;-)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This person reminds me of that other person...discuss.... ;)
 
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Only ugly girls hit on me. :( The pretty ones give me signals and I do the hitting, lol.
 
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Originally posted by Lost
dude.. theres already a GIANT post on this in the ARCHIVES
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Well i'm bringing it back to life, doesnt offend you now, does it? shame. *sigh*

Otherwise, kewl stories guys, and i'm looking forward to hearing more;)

Laterz...
 
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How can I begin when I don't remember half of them.

Chicks used to be all over me way before ss.com too :p



PS: And what happened to your gay-ass big plans on donjuan chat? :D

I'm heading for a party, so talk to you tomorrow about it.
 
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Originally posted by aequitas
Well i'm bringing it back to life, doesnt offend you now, does it? shame. *sigh*

Otherwise, kewl stories guys, and i'm looking forward to hearing more;)

Laterz...
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If there is already a big post about this in The Archives, use that one instead.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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