"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women have found a new way to exploit gullible men.

El Payaso

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Maybe I'm just new to this but apparently, there's now something called a "remote date". A co-worker of mine said he had a first date with a girl this weekend. I asked him what they did and he said they had a "remote date".

I asked him what that was and he said he ordered groceries from Amazon Fresh and had it sent to her house. She cooked her food and they watched a movie in their respective cities in the comfort of their homes.

The date was on Friday and he texted her on Saturday that he had a good time and he would like to see her again. No response since. Lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whaaat? Shut up!
So....exactly what are the logistics if they decide to put out while on this "remote date"? Lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So basically.. its a new way for women to waste a man's time without putting out?

MEN: There are better ways to be a time wh0re to women. Check out the famous "friend zone". While you might not get laid you might AT LEAST get to touch something.
Yes, at least with real life friendzone you might accidentally catch some sideboob with her half hug.

Anyway, "remote date?" The dating scene has clearly hit rock bottom and continues digging.
 

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I thought Cuddle Buddies were the all-time worst for the gullible man. but noooo its been ousted say hello to the Remote Date.. wtf..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guys like this should be shamed from other men as much as easy girls get shamed from other women.

They basically make the value of all males drop.

Someone will say that "women dig real alphas" or similar stuff then let me ask you, if a pusher sells crappy stuff at very low price is the pusher selling high level stuff not suffering from it?

If you have fast foods popping everywhere even good restaurants are gonna feel it, except of course for the top 1 which charges 100 euros per meal.
 

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This remote date guy is a joke.

God bless his soul.

I thought Cuddle Buddies were the all-time worst for the gullible man. but noooo its been ousted say hello to the Remote Date.. wtf..
What is this cuddle buddy you speak of? ****. Let me grab on that ass one time. My **** definitely coming out. Clean.
 

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Maybe I'm just new to this but apparently, there's now something called a "remote date". A co-worker of mine said he had a first date with a girl this weekend. I asked him what they did and he said they had a "remote date".

I asked him what that was and he said he ordered groceries from Amazon Fresh and had it sent to her house. She cooked her food and they watched a movie in their respective cities in the comfort of their homes.

The date was on Friday and he texted her on Saturday that he had a good time and he would like to see her again. No response since. Lol.
All he did was buy her groceries for her.

Is he an idiot?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't see what the big deal is. Back in 2010 I had a long distance relationship (and again in 2015). You watch the same movie together and ou eat the same meal and you text each other. Girls find that extremely romantic.
 

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I don't see what the big deal is. Back in 2010 I had a long distance relationship (and again in 2015). You watch the same movie together and ou eat the same meal and you text each other. Girls find that extremely romantic.
Was it a first "date" and did you pay for their meals?
 

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Was it a first "date" and did you pay for their meals?
It was never a first date. It was someone who I had met and was planning to see again in person soon but was LDR.

Did I pay $15 for a f*cking pizza? I earn that in 5 minutes, the amount of time it takes to order the pizza, so yes.

In both cases it led to sex, and in 2015 the (21 year old stripper, from 1000 miles away) said "That was the most romantic thing any man has ever done for me". Note she is the one who is now texting me again after 13 months. And the other one is my oneitis from 2011 who now became available to me on FB.
 
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You're video conferencing an event where there is minimal conversation, no chance in hell of physical contact and you get free food delivered to your house?

That's f*cking.... BRILLIANT!!!

I really hope this trend catches on. Gonna find myself some desperate women to do this with so I never have to go food shopping again...
It certainly will make nexting them even easier
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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