"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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women have better chance of finding job?

picard

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do women have preferential treatment in getting a job than men?

I notice that companies hiring alot more women than men. I often see men attending job fairs. Men have hard time finding jobs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FairShake

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Sometimes. Depends on the job I think.

Trade or computer jobs I doubt it.

Nursing or office jobs I bet they do.

And sales could go either way.
 

Tao walker 2005

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I agree, a lot of discrimination out there against men these days.
It's like, men see other men as threats and women as potential dates
women see men as threats and other women as potential friends
so its much easier, no matter who is doing the hiring, for a woman to get a job.
I have been openly discriminated against in group interview situations where I was the only male present.

You can get around this by being so charming to women interviewers that they are attracted to you and will feel like hiring you, and by being so jovial and non-threatening to male interviewers that they won't see you as a threat (although they'll still probably hire a chick if they can get away with it).

Better yet, start your own business and make your own luck. As DJ, there isn't any support network to fall back on. Its hard and rough, so suck it up and fight.
 
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