"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women have been in awe of Chads for a millennium

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This is what a Byzantine princess had to say about a particular GigiChad crusader:

“The appearance of this man was, to put it briefly, unlike that of any other man whether Greek or barbarian seen in those days on Roman soil. The sight of him inspired admiration, the mention of his name terror. I will describe in detail the barbarian's characteristics. His stature was such that he towered almost a full cubit over the tallest men. He was slender of waist and flanks, with broad shoulders and chest, strong in the arms; overall he was neither too slender, nor too heavily built and fleshy, but perfectly proportioned - one might say that he conformed to the ideal of Polyklitos. His hands were large, he had a good firm stance, and his neck and back were compact. If to the astute and meticulous observer he appeared to stoop slightly, that was not caused by any weakness of the vertebrae of the lower spine, but presumably there was some malformation there from birth. The skin all over his body was very pale, except for his face which was pale but with some colour to it too. His hair was light-colored and did not go down to his shoulders as it does with other barbarians; in fact, the man had no great predilection for long hair, but cut his short, to the ears. Whether his beard was red or of any other color I cannot say, for the razor had passed over it closely, leaving his chin smoother than any marble. However, it seemed that it would have been red. His eyes were light-blue and gave some hint of the man's spirit and dignity. He breathed freely through nostrils that were broad, worthy of his chest and a fine outlet for the breath that came in gusts from his lungs."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In some ancient cultures, there was no such thing as homosexuality, it was just another form of love, no different or worse than other forms. Many men had sex with both men and women equally.
In the middle aged christian empires? I find it very unlikely given we talk about over religious christians among other religious christians surrounded from their fanatic armies.

What you said was true for caesar and mitridates many centuries earlier.

Middle aged Italy, Byzantium and the holy land were not ancient cultures.
 

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In the middle aged christian empires? I find it very unlikely given we talk about over religious christians among other religious christians surrounded from their fanatic armies.

What you said was true for caesar and mitridates many centuries earlier.

Middle aged Italy, Byzantium and the holy land were not ancient cultures.
Ancient times...Greece in particular
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ancient times...Greece in particular
Yes but the subject of this topic is from 1100 AD, there were no such things as open homosexuality, orgies and such in medieval christian europe...there were open executions for them.

Feel free to click the link on OP's post to get the time and political landskape.
 

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Yes but the subject of this topic is from 1100 AD, there were no such things as open homosexuality, orgies and such in medieval christian europe...there were open executions for them.

Feel free to click the link on OP's post to get the time and political landskape.
But they still happened...just behind the scenes.
 
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