You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's why it's important, not to chase...everyone else is doing it. Makes you stand out. Girls will fall in love.I can't help but wonder if the OP is underestimating how attractive these girls are. At my advanced age, I find most 22 year olds attractive, unless they are obese.
Men are like sperm, a million of them out there all competing for a shot at the egg.
Well there you go: All women are evil and you should just turn gay..Yeah, I keep seeing people in these forums preaching the whole gym, dressing nice, etc. as if the main problem men aren't attracting women, assuming the said dudes aren't working out or dressing that.
"Oh, you're not having success with women because you need to work out, dress nice, etc."
"Um, I do work out and dress nice"
"Oh, hum, well, then then you're meeting the wrong women."
Wash-rinse-repeat.
Lolz!!!Well there you go: All women are evil and you should just turn gay..
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gonorreah pu$$y pie mmmmm!!!For every Guy willing to walk away from a Bad Woman there are 20 willing to take his place and tolerate crappy behaviour for a slice of the pu$$y pie.
We are doomed Boyos
Yep, it's just a female.I can't help but wonder if the OP is underestimating how attractive these girls are. At my advanced age, I find most 22 year olds attractive, unless they are obese.
Men are like sperm, a million of them out there all competing for a shot at the egg.
Yup. I would qualify to <1% echelon for the 9-10 club. Some of these Instagram models get a hundred+ date proposals with each pic posted. None of these men are up to par.Yeah they do have a lot of options but let's take a closer look:
75% of them are terrible options they wouldn't even consider
10% are bad options they don't want.
10% are guys they "settle" for but will bounce on once better options come along
5% are guys they actually want.
If you can get yourself into the 5% category you don't have much to worry about.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is all you needed to write.(Good looks helps a lot)
If your face doesn't "have it", then do you really thing that is going to matter. Sounds like a gargantuan effort a guy has to do, not exactly like buying milk at the corner store, and for what? An uglier lady just has to show up and spread her legs and already she has a tonne of options while you have to do all of that hard work and you still don't know at the end of the day if it will add up to something as there is lots of threads of people who has "been there and done that". Did that work for you?s. If your'e fat go to gym and get ripped. Stop drinking effing beer. You know what you have to do so just do it. Get the right clothes, get the swagger, and get the social proof. Chick friends are VERY helpful.
Save yourself the trouble and start using money instead of muscles.If your face doesn't "have it", then do you really thing that is going to matter. Sounds like a gargantuan effort a guy has to do, not exactly like buying milk at the corner store, and for what? An uglier lady just has to show up and spread her legs and already she has a tonne of options while you have to do all of that hard work and you still don't know at the end of the day if it will add up to something as there is lots of threads of people who has "been there and done that". Did that work for you?
Unless you are famous.No matter how alpha you think you are you will never experience the attention an average looking woman receives.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
They're just h0es. It's men over inflating the price of these ladies.Yup. I would qualify to <1% echelon for the 9-10 club. Some of these Instagram models get a hundred+ date proposals with each pic posted. None of these men are up to par.
And even then... I think it was Charlie Sheen might have said it. "If you want the even close to the access of a beautiful woman you need to be famous... And even then"Unless you are famous.
Yea. Google "Dubai porta potty" if you want to know what those Instagram models are all about.They're just h0es. It's men over inflating the price of these ladies.
It's ****ed up.And even then... I think it was Charlie Sheen might have said it. "If you want the even close to the access of a beautiful woman you need to be famous... And even then"
Nothing to be mad about my man. Red pill rage doesn't work. Once you know they are WORTHLESS you are in the game.It's ****ed up.
Even obese girls think their **** doesn't stink.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.