"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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women havbe so many options it is unreal: real case

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For every Guy willing to walk away from a Bad Woman there are 20 willing to take his place and tolerate crappy behaviour for a slice of the pu$$y pie.

We are doomed Boyos
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can't help but wonder if the OP is underestimating how attractive these girls are. At my advanced age, I find most 22 year olds attractive, unless they are obese.

Men are like sperm, a million of them out there all competing for a shot at the egg.
 

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I can't help but wonder if the OP is underestimating how attractive these girls are. At my advanced age, I find most 22 year olds attractive, unless they are obese.

Men are like sperm, a million of them out there all competing for a shot at the egg.
That's why it's important, not to chase...everyone else is doing it. Makes you stand out. Girls will fall in love.
 

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Yeah, I keep seeing people in these forums preaching the whole gym, dressing nice, etc. as if the main problem men aren't attracting women, assuming the said dudes aren't working out or dressing that.

"Oh, you're not having success with women because you need to work out, dress nice, etc."

"Um, I do work out and dress nice"

"Oh, hum, well, then then you're meeting the wrong women."

Wash-rinse-repeat.
Well there you go: All women are evil and you should just turn gay..
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For every Guy willing to walk away from a Bad Woman there are 20 willing to take his place and tolerate crappy behaviour for a slice of the pu$$y pie.

We are doomed Boyos
Gonorreah pu$$y pie mmmmm!!!
 

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I can't help but wonder if the OP is underestimating how attractive these girls are. At my advanced age, I find most 22 year olds attractive, unless they are obese.

Men are like sperm, a million of them out there all competing for a shot at the egg.
Yep, it's just a female.
 

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Yeah they do have a lot of options but let's take a closer look:

75% of them are terrible options they wouldn't even consider
10% are bad options they don't want.
10% are guys they "settle" for but will bounce on once better options come along
5% are guys they actually want.

If you can get yourself into the 5% category you don't have much to worry about.
Yup. I would qualify to <1% echelon for the 9-10 club. Some of these Instagram models get a hundred+ date proposals with each pic posted. None of these men are up to par.
 

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Nah dress nice coz u have pride. Work out because it makes u strong. In my case currently netting too many approach shots = need stronger legs. B social coz otherwise life is metro dodo boulot. Women r there for sex and entertainment. And most of them are not useful for either.

If it's fun and on your terms participate. Otherwise at least your hand will be faithful.
 

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And @ThisNThat as usual you're making a straw man argument. The guys here don't have problems finding women. They have trouble finding women worth keeping
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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s. If your'e fat go to gym and get ripped. Stop drinking effing beer. You know what you have to do so just do it. Get the right clothes, get the swagger, and get the social proof. Chick friends are VERY helpful.
If your face doesn't "have it", then do you really thing that is going to matter. Sounds like a gargantuan effort a guy has to do, not exactly like buying milk at the corner store, and for what? An uglier lady just has to show up and spread her legs and already she has a tonne of options while you have to do all of that hard work and you still don't know at the end of the day if it will add up to something as there is lots of threads of people who has "been there and done that". Did that work for you?
 
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If your face doesn't "have it", then do you really thing that is going to matter. Sounds like a gargantuan effort a guy has to do, not exactly like buying milk at the corner store, and for what? An uglier lady just has to show up and spread her legs and already she has a tonne of options while you have to do all of that hard work and you still don't know at the end of the day if it will add up to something as there is lots of threads of people who has "been there and done that". Did that work for you?
Save yourself the trouble and start using money instead of muscles.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yup. I would qualify to <1% echelon for the 9-10 club. Some of these Instagram models get a hundred+ date proposals with each pic posted. None of these men are up to par.
They're just h0es. It's men over inflating the price of these ladies.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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