few of us are 100% oective about ourselves. we are usually more objective about others, but still not 100%. if I had to judge by the responses I've gotten from women over the years, and the types of women I've attracted, I would have to conclude that I'm a pretty good-looking guy. But, to be perfectly honest, when I look in the mirror I just don't see it. when I try to be objective I see myself as average to maybe slightly above-average, at best. I have always just assumed that the majority of my appeal to women came from other than purely physical attributes. So, my personal experiences with women probably aren't much use to a fine physical specimen like yourself. However, I have had plenty of tall, athletic, handsome, socially competent friends, and not one of them has ever been unsuccessful with women unless you count selecting women of poor character as unsuccessful. I have known guys who were tall, lean, and traditionally good looking, but with Goofy personalities and who were awkward around women , and they had very little success. is it possible you aren't being completely objective?