"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Chamber36 said:
I'm not a shrink, but it sounds to me like the OP is projecting his hatred of his own race onto all the females.

The way he describes females think of him and the way he thinks of females of his own race is in a way the way he thinks of himself. So he will have to learn to think of himself in a different way before anyone else will.

I'm not a shrink, but it sounds to me like the OP is a troll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gspshields2 said:
Would you like me to record the conversations next time and have them posted here?

I get called racial slurs all the time by whites and hispanics(ESPECIALLY BIGTIME BY HISPANICS)/sometimes blacks. When it's a guy telling me this sh1t is no problem because I can kick his ass.

But ifs a female, I just walk away because you can't do anything about it.

Honestly, I did nothing and I was called a racial slur by some of these girls, not all of them, but enough to put me in a sour mood.

I will record the conversations next time and post them here,
to prove to you what I am saying is real.
This is where you lost me. There is no way if you are the size and weight and build you claim that people are calling you racial slurs to your face. That just doesn't happen because they would be intimidated by your size. I'm 5' 8" 191 lbs of muscle and people talk a bunch of sh!t over the phone, then come in the store to talk to me and are like "Who is Matt?" I walk out and tell them that's me, and I see their head drop to the ground as they tell me they weren't serious about what they said on the phone, they were just upset...blah blah blah. Size is a hell of an intimidator, you either are not the size you claim or do not hacw the build you claim.
 

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omega05 said:
You guys call him a troll yet respond in his thread...right

I respond in his thread for the purpose of calling him a troll.

Makes sense to me.
 

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marmel75 said:
This is where you lost me. There is no way if you are the size and weight and build you claim that people are calling you racial slurs to your face. That just doesn't happen because they would be intimidated by your size. I'm 5' 8" 191 lbs of muscle and people talk a bunch of sh!t over the phone, then come in the store to talk to me and are like "Who is Matt?" I walk out and tell them that's me, and I see their head drop to the ground as they tell me they weren't serious about what they said on the phone, they were just upset...blah blah blah. Size is a hell of an intimidator, you either are not the size you claim or do not hacw the build you claim.

5'8" 191 lbs is tiny. If your talking to some HB and she has a 6'5" 260 pound ROID MONSTER boyfriend what are you going to do then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gspshields2 said:
5'8" 191 lbs is tiny. If your talking to some HB and she has a 6'5" 260 pound ROID MONSTER boyfriend what are you going to do then?
Sounds like you got a hard-on for that roid monster man, gsp. Maybe you're hanging out at the wrong gyms.
 

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Not sure if trolling, but this is a human thing. There's female *****es, just as there are male *******s. Bad people exist. Deal with it, and stop crying.

A group of guys might call you a fag or douche bag for wanting to hang around them, and not being cool enough, or whatever. And so, women will occassionallh call you ugly, a virgin, nerd, or whatever, as well. Whooptie do.

Best thing to do is not give a **** about what other people think, or let their negative opinions get you down. These people are always going to exist. Shrug them off, don't dwell on their words, and keep meeting new people. You don't need to be accepted by everyone, and you never will. Not everyone is polite in their rejections, but those people are jerks anyway. Even if they did accept you - they'd still be jerks. Never let jerks get to you.
 

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gspshields2 said:
5'8" 191 lbs is tiny.
No, it's actually more than adequate. It's a very nice weight for that size assuming a balanced physique. Ideal.

If your talking to some HB and she has a 6'5" 260 pound ROID MONSTER boyfriend what are you going to do then?
Well you can't kick him in the nuts... that's for sure.
 

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Fugg it. I get a kick out of GSP's posts. Let him trollololol. Someone else reading GSP's posts who may actually "think" the way he does will see just how ridiculous his thoughts are.

Have you ever heard of the True Forced Loneliness dudes on Youtube GSP? You sound like a prime candidate to join them. Hahahahaha. We men of So Suave 'secretly' know all the hottest babes in the world only date 6'5 roid monsters and WE CAN'T HAVE THEM! LMFAO.
 
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