Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It sounds like these chicks should have agreed to date the short, bald engineer that had asked them out when they were 30 - he just wasn't cool enough for the future harridans I suppose ...Take Kayla, a professional with an Ivy League MBA, who had frozen her eggs at 38 while dating Matt, until she finally realized after a year and a half that he was “never going to commit.” Or Lily, a curator whose long-term partner Jack ran down her reproductive clock over nearly a decade, dangling the prospect of marriage and children but never following through, leading her to freeze her eggs at the late age of 43. Or Tiffany, a woman with engineering and MBA degrees living in Washington, D.C., who, after dating men from all educational backgrounds, still hadn’t found a partner and put two egg-freezing cycles on a zero-interest credit card.
The short, bald engineer is a loser to mostly all women. If makes $300,000/year and has a solid net worth, he might get a chance.It sounds like these chicks should have agreed to date the short, bald engineer that had asked them out when they were 30 - he just wasn't cool enough for the future harridans I suppose ...![]()
It kinda is mens fault. Most of them are big losers even by standards of other menMSN
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Ladies have to freeze their eggs and it's men's fault for not wanting to commit and raise babies together.
This lengthy, hamster spinning article doesn't even consider the idea that modern women are not at all desirable for long term commitment.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Also freezing their eggs way past the age of having a healthy baby. After 35, there is a much higher chance of having birth defects or complications. Imagine that, it’s like your own biology knows it‘s best to procreate when you are young. Reason why teenage girls and early twenties can practically get pregnant just looking at a hard dic, wow.What kind of woman freezes her eggs so she can dive deep into her career, and then worry about a man later down the road? Very likely A feminist that doesn't understand what men value does this. And no man wants that.
Once again, another example of self centered women lacking awareness.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Men´s fault? Those ladies should go to sperm bank and f0ck offMSN
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Ladies have to freeze their eggs and it's men's fault for not wanting to commit and raise babies together.