"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women Freezing Eggs Blame Men

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Ladies have to freeze their eggs and it's men's fault for not wanting to commit and raise babies together.

This lengthy, hamster spinning article doesn't even consider the idea that modern women are not at all desirable for long term commitment.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Take Kayla, a professional with an Ivy League MBA, who had frozen her eggs at 38 while dating Matt, until she finally realized after a year and a half that he was “never going to commit.” Or Lily, a curator whose long-term partner Jack ran down her reproductive clock over nearly a decade, dangling the prospect of marriage and children but never following through, leading her to freeze her eggs at the late age of 43. Or Tiffany, a woman with engineering and MBA degrees living in Washington, D.C., who, after dating men from all educational backgrounds, still hadn’t found a partner and put two egg-freezing cycles on a zero-interest credit card.
It sounds like these chicks should have agreed to date the short, bald engineer that had asked them out when they were 30 - he just wasn't cool enough for the future harridans I suppose ... :rolleyes:
 

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It sounds like these chicks should have agreed to date the short, bald engineer that had asked them out when they were 30 - he just wasn't cool enough for the future harridans I suppose ... :rolleyes:
The short, bald engineer is a loser to mostly all women. If makes $300,000/year and has a solid net worth, he might get a chance.

Kayla and Tiffany have advanced degrees and are likely a pain in the butt in any interaction.
 

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Ladies have to freeze their eggs and it's men's fault for not wanting to commit and raise babies together.

This lengthy, hamster spinning article doesn't even consider the idea that modern women are not at all desirable for long term commitment.
It kinda is mens fault. Most of them are big losers even by standards of other men
 

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What kind of woman freezes her eggs so she can dive deep into her career, and then worry about a man later down the road? Very likely A feminist that doesn't understand what men value does this. And no man wants that.

Once again, another example of self centered women lacking awareness.
 

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How dare you not have kids with me after a year and a half as if the milk don't smell bad
 

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What kind of woman freezes her eggs so she can dive deep into her career, and then worry about a man later down the road? Very likely A feminist that doesn't understand what men value does this. And no man wants that.

Once again, another example of self centered women lacking awareness.
Also freezing their eggs way past the age of having a healthy baby. After 35, there is a much higher chance of having birth defects or complications. Imagine that, it’s like your own biology knows it‘s best to procreate when you are young. Reason why teenage girls and early twenties can practically get pregnant just looking at a hard dic, wow.

Once again the false narrative that ”you can have it all”. In reality, they have to make a choice of what they ultimately want. This career woman is also going to have more trouble because she lacks that mothering instinct. Just this week, a male coworker announced he was having another child and the career feminist in the group shrilled in horror at the idea of taking care of someone else. Too narcissistic and selfish to raise a child.
 

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I think we are seeing signs that women are starting to realize they can't have it all. Articles like this, men checking out, women noticing that there aren't men they want to date, men not committing, men not going to college. Guys have figured out the return on investment and risk is too much for what modern day woman offers is not there.

Keep track of what happens with social media and dating apps. Those two things are women's primary source of daily validation. When guys quit validating women on those avenues we will know they have truly started to wise up and take back control.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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One of the biggest lies sold to women is freezing eggs and their efficacy post-35.
 
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