FutureSpartan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women don't trust me?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I really doubt that's the issue.FutureSpartan said:Am I stuck in a paradox...where I get no action because women think I get a lot of action?
I don't think most women care whether you have a history at most points in their life. I get the same questions and statements from women and I couldn't be further from that. It's just something they say to put you off your game a bit. It's not a deal-breaker or game-ender.
FutureSpartan
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What is it then? Is it lack of preselection that makes women more guarded? It's a world of difference the way i get treated in a social circle where the girl knows me through someone.FairShake said:I really doubt that's the issue.
I don't think most women care whether you have a history at most points in their life. I get the same questions and statements from women and I couldn't be further from that. It's just something they say to put you off your game a bit. It's not a deal-breaker or game-ender.
Hidden-Hand
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Haha you got black balled. Your on "The Network". All the girls know about you, man you are finished. I mean you might 'get lucky' but chances are low. I have never seen this before. If you want to get some you gotta go outta town! lol
FutureSpartan
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lol are you serious....it can't be that bad.Hidden-Hand said:Haha you got black balled. Your on "The Network". All the girls know about you, man you are finished. I mean you might 'get lucky' but chances are low. I have never seen this before. If you want to get some you gotta go outta town! lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FutureSpartan
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I have made approaches all over the metropolitan area of 8 million people. You can't tell me that out of probably 30-40 cold approaches i have made so far all women know about me