FutureSpartan
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Women don't trust me?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I really doubt that's the issue.FutureSpartan said:Am I stuck in a paradox...where I get no action because women think I get a lot of action?
I don't think most women care whether you have a history at most points in their life. I get the same questions and statements from women and I couldn't be further from that. It's just something they say to put you off your game a bit. It's not a deal-breaker or game-ender.
FutureSpartan
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What is it then? Is it lack of preselection that makes women more guarded? It's a world of difference the way i get treated in a social circle where the girl knows me through someone.FairShake said:I really doubt that's the issue.
I don't think most women care whether you have a history at most points in their life. I get the same questions and statements from women and I couldn't be further from that. It's just something they say to put you off your game a bit. It's not a deal-breaker or game-ender.
Hidden-Hand
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Haha you got black balled. Your on "The Network". All the girls know about you, man you are finished. I mean you might 'get lucky' but chances are low. I have never seen this before. If you want to get some you gotta go outta town! lol
FutureSpartan
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lol are you serious....it can't be that bad.Hidden-Hand said:Haha you got black balled. Your on "The Network". All the girls know about you, man you are finished. I mean you might 'get lucky' but chances are low. I have never seen this before. If you want to get some you gotta go outta town! lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
FutureSpartan
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I have made approaches all over the metropolitan area of 8 million people. You can't tell me that out of probably 30-40 cold approaches i have made so far all women know about me