Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I thought you were taken.I don't need one. I definitely want one but fvck, can he please be nice, stable and want to have a loving relationship?
Check any MGTARD video or comment section.It is much more probably that women actually need men than the other way round. And you do not hear a lot of men yelling "we don't need women", right?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Wait what? But you're on a forum that tells guys how to get laid.I don't need one. I definitely want one but fvck, can he please be nice, stable and want to have a loving relationship?
To quote Shakespeare: "the lady doth protest too much". People who make a point of declaring that they don't need something are usually the neediest people around.It is much more probably that women actually need men than the other way round. And you do not hear a lot of men yelling "we don't need women", right?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
@TenacityI don't need one. I definitely want one but fvck, can he please be nice, stable and want to have a loving relationship?
LOL, because im not black, im not in his age range, we live a few states apart and I am in an LTR
I thought you found a guy like that.I don't need one. I definitely want one but fvck, can he please be nice, stable and want to have a loving relationship?
He's absolutely a really good guy, but there's still stuff we have to work out, that's the way it is in any relationship. He can get ugly when he gets mad. It really doesn't happen very often, but it hurts to have someone, who says they love you, start to try and take your inventory, about random stuff, because they are angry about something completely unrelated. It's like ugly kitchen sink fighting - nothing gets resolved because you go off on a thousand different tangents and you feel like you have PTSD afterwards. I can barely keep up with his hamster wheel when he is angry.I thought you found a guy like that.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This all fueled by feminism and emasculated men who support it. However, Brexit and Trump in USA is a good sign, let's hope some countries in Europe will get back to right wing movements as those are the only ones that can do something about it, I think.The way society moves on , women are starting to be more indepedent and more man like. The reason is that ,men become more feminine and don't want to ''accept'' the testosterone flowing into them(leftist pricks promote that) . Someone has to take charge , and women start to do so. Not to mention uneducated men who fck here and there and make babies with every hoe they find and later abandoning their kids, promote a lot this kind of our modern world anomaly.
Women have all the support they need from the goverment , because goverment provides safety and the financial support they need, in other words , they take the manly role.
But this doesn't happen before women become mothers. When a woman gets a baby , then stops thinking about anything else other than her kid(as long as there is someone to provide for her needs). The way science moves on , women won't need a man to make a kid in the future. Adding the LGBT movement which destroys all the existent morals and parent figures , men are in straight line of destruction.
In fact , evolution suggests such belief.
I saw some 10 years ago , in a documentary about the chromosomes ,which ones need for the offspring to become a boy and which ones for the girl(normaly it's much more complicated than having X or Y chromosomes but these are the basics) and it was explaining about the X chromosome which was getting smaller and smaller , meaning that in some thousand or milions years , it will be dissapeared. In such a long time , we will be able to find something to stabilize this (i hope ) but the thing is , that even biology and evolution is against man.
Unfortunatelly , men once in their lives , they need women to reproduce but as i said , the way science progress , there will be a time where men won't be needed anymore. Feminism is on the rise and their biggest supporters are men. There is a war of the gender that just started but it's too small yet to be noticed.
I'm a big Trump supporter and i believe he is a true leader. He is the only one capable of change and the majority is afraid of that . That's normal. But in Europe everything was fine till this old hag Merkel came, created conflict between the European countries and brought all the middle east in Europe. ) Brexit is a small reaction from German outside politics and unfortunately many more countries will follow.This all fueled by feminism and emasculated men who support it. However, Brexit and Trump in USA is a good sign, let's hope some countries in Europe will get back to right wing movements as those are the only ones that can do something about it, I think.
Sigh. The Y chromosome is the male chromosome. The X is female.The way society moves on , women are starting to be more indepedent and more man like. The reason is that ,men become more feminine and don't want to ''accept'' the testosterone flowing into them(leftist pricks promote that) . Someone has to take charge , and women start to do so. Not to mention uneducated men who fck here and there and make babies with every hoe they find and later abandoning their kids, promote a lot this kind of our modern world anomaly.
Women have all the support they need from the goverment , because goverment provides safety and the financial support they need, in other words , they take the manly role.
But this doesn't happen before women become mothers. When a woman gets a baby , then stops thinking about anything else other than her kid(as long as there is someone to provide for her needs). The way science moves on , women won't need a man to make a kid in the future. Adding the LGBT movement which destroys all the existent morals and parent figures , men are in straight line of destruction.
In fact , evolution suggests such belief.
I saw some 10 years ago , in a documentary about the chromosomes ,which ones need for the offspring to become a boy and which ones for the girl(normaly it's much more complicated than having X or Y chromosomes but these are the basics) and it was explaining about the X chromosome which was getting smaller and smaller , meaning that in some thousand or milions years , it will be dissapeared. In such a long time , we will be able to find something to stabilize this (i hope ) but the thing is , that even biology and evolution is against man.
Unfortunatelly , men once in their lives , they need women to reproduce but as i said , the way science progress , there will be a time where men won't be needed anymore. Feminism is on the rise and their biggest supporters are men. There is a war of the gender that just started but it's too small yet to be noticed.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.