"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joe45

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i'm asian btw and i noticed that women as a whole don;t flirt with me or show any interests this is espcially with asian women most of em are quite and shy and they aren't very talktive. i donlt think i had a asian gal all smiling and flirty wiht me ever if it was its was just friends kind of way. how about ui guys. i hear guys in some other forums and this one too saying women flirting with em and teasing em and talking to em .... well it never happens to me. most gals just talk to me like normally and thats it nothing more or less.
are women as a whole more consverative nowadays- go to college in my 20's. i also find that as a guy i have to put a lottt of effort on my part to get to now the girl or if not they won't notice me or anything. is it that hard
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BrotherAP

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Joel, dude... (yeah I recognize you from that other message board)

Did you read any part of the DJ bible? Women flirt in response to a man confidently flirting with them. You're sitting at your computer trying to figure out why girls aren't flirting with you... but you should be figuring out why you aren't flirting with girls. It's not rocket science -- but you have a long way to go.. So get going.

It's like your looking for a quick fix when you need a complete overhaul.

Start here http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/wms.pdf
 

Marf

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Yep....

study the DJ Bible REAL HARD....then just get out and try this sh1t out man! As soon as you reframe and see yourself as a man everyone wants, you'll notice how stuff changes (thats what happened to me ;) )

Btw... REVIEW REVIEW REVIEW....that way you really wont need to ask any more questions.
 

Craig Reeves

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Hm.

OK, here's something that most guys don't seem to get.

When you approach a woman and start a conversation, YOU are the one in control. YOU'RE like the conductor, and she's like the orchestra.

If you want the dynamic of the conversation to be flirtatious, it is YOUR responsibility to MAKE it that way.

Good Luck!
 
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