Women don’t make logical choices, they make emotional choices

[tksniper]

Every time you’ve been dumped or ghosted, it wasn’t because the woman weighed the pros and cons and decided to make an executive decision. Women don’t need these forums to decide when to drop a guy. They make choices out of pure emotion.

So how do men appeal to women’s emotions? By being dominant, being self validated, and having high self esteem. All of these things give women security. There’s really no shortcut. You have to be on top of your game. And if this type of guy gets dumped, it was because she didn’t trust him enough to be a long term partner. She didn’t feel appreciated. She didn’t trust him.

99% of every guys problem on this forum simply comes down to you being low value, having low self esteem, and being insecure.

It’s not a puzzle. It’s as obvious as night and day.

You see alot of threads about tactics. But none of those tactics changes the guy. Is he dominant and self assured? If he’s not then he needs to work on that because no tactic is going to work if he’s not HIM. You’ve got to be THAT GUY.

 

[Young OG]

In other news, water is wet.

 

[forcerecon01]

Damn you explained myself at times in an instant. Well done

 

[Plinco]

Every time you’ve been dumped or ghosted, it wasn’t because the woman weighed the pros and cons and decided to make an executive decision. Women don’t need these forums to decide when to drop a guy. They make choices out of pure emotion.

So how do men appeal to women’s emotions? By being dominant, being self validated, and having high self esteem. All of these things give women security. There’s really no shortcut. You have to be on top of your game. And if this type of guy gets dumped, it was because she didn’t trust him enough to be a long term partner. She didn’t feel appreciated. She didn’t trust him.

99% of every guys problem on this forum simply comes down to you being low value, having low self esteem, and being insecure.

It’s not a puzzle. It’s as obvious as night and day.

You see alot of threads about tactics. But none of those tactics changes the guy. Is he dominant and self assured? If he’s not then he needs to work on that because no tactic is going to work if he’s not HIM. You’ve got to be THAT GUY.

Correct. You can't properly act like a person you want to be unless you are that person

 

[kavi]

Every time you’ve been dumped or ghosted, it wasn’t because the woman weighed the pros and cons and decided to make an executive decision. Women don’t need these forums to decide when to drop a guy. They make choices out of pure emotion.

So how do men appeal to women’s emotions? By being dominant, being self validated, and having high self esteem. All of these things give women security. There’s really no shortcut. You have to be on top of your game. And if this type of guy gets dumped, it was because she didn’t trust him enough to be a long term partner. She didn’t feel appreciated. She didn’t trust him.

99% of every guys problem on this forum simply comes down to you being low value, having low self esteem, and being insecure.

It’s not a puzzle. It’s as obvious as night and day.

You see alot of threads about tactics. But none of those tactics changes the guy. Is he dominant and self assured? If he’s not then he needs to work on that because no tactic is going to work if he’s not HIM. You’ve got to be THAT GUY.

Yes but why do men feel insecure? IMO it is the socio-ecomic system we live in. Self-Esteem cannot be increased imo by greater success WITHIN the current system ie money, notches etc but only by knowing the failure of the system and minimizing immersion in it.

Correct. You can't properly act like a person you want to be unless you are that person

You cannot be that person WITHIN this system imo. To be that person we need the system that allows us to work, eat, sleep, live without reducing our self-esteem which means changes to the political system.

 

[Plinco]

You cannot be that person WITHIN this system imo. To be that person we need the system that allows us to work, eat, sleep, live without reducing our self-esteem which means changes to the political system.

That's a good point. I think the best way to beat the social engineering is to 1.) Not be conditioned by it, 2.) condition the people around you constructively, which is the oppose of what the corrupt system wants. Teach people how to think for themselves and that they can make a difference.

 

[tksniper]

Yes but why do men feel insecure? IMO it is the socio-ecomic system we live in. Self-Esteem cannot be increased imo by greater success WITHIN the current system ie money, notches etc but only by knowing the failure of the system and minimizing immersion in it.



You cannot be that person WITHIN this system imo. To be that person we need the system that allows us to work, eat, sleep, live without reducing our self-esteem which means changes to the political system.

Seems like you are on to something. An awakening. You should post more about it.