You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sorry to dissapoint you, but what you just described is a manipulstive psychopath, a true con artist. Yes.The fact that you are asking this question shows you haven't seen what normal, educated, non slut, non bi polar, non criminal woman who have the state and federal government on their side are capable of if they don't get their way.
It's even front page news on CNN. Is Angelina Jolie, a famous sexy actress worth multi millions with homes all over the world a sociopath and psychopath? No. Is she Low Value? No. Is Brad Pitt a homicidal, sociopath crazy violent nutcase because he was really attracted to her? No. Did she set him up, destroy his life and prevent him from seeing his own kids because she had an 'agenda' and he didn't fit in it? Yes
What a woman is, does, or has done in the past has NOTHING to do with what she is capable of if things don't go her way.![]()
You are wasting your own time.My god you are stupid.
All these statements you made are POSITIVE; HIGH VALUE.
Psychopathness, sociopathness, manipulative people are LOW people.
A con artist presents himself as high value even tough he might not be. Then what is the difference between women and con artist? YOU ARE 100% SURE WOMEN ARE LOW VALUE, but you don't know for sure who is a con artist.
I can't believe you keep talking yourself in a vicious circle.
And yo, the older you get, the more stupid **** people put in your mind, the harder it is to become enlightened from them. Enlightenment simply means pureness, understanding nature. And if you didn't know, let me teach you: the younger one is, the closer he is to nature. The older one is, the more bull**** has been programmed in his head. This is not 100% the case, but mostly.
Stop talking to me, you are just wasting my time.
All of this happens when they don't fear the consequences...The fact that you are asking this question shows you haven't seen what normal, educated, non slut, non bi polar, non criminal woman who have the state and federal government on their side are capable of if they don't get their way.
It's even front page news on CNN. Is Angelina Jolie, a famous sexy actress worth multi millions with homes all over the world a sociopath and psychopath? No. Is she Low Value? No. Is Brad Pitt a homicidal, sociopath crazy violent nutcase because he was really attracted to her? No. Did she set him up, destroy his life and prevent him from seeing his own kids because she had an 'agenda' and he didn't fit in it? Yes
What a woman is, does, or has done in the past has NOTHING to do with what she is capable of if things don't go her way.![]()
Sexual attraction has nothing to do with morality. This is why no man has ever masturbated to a resume. Looking good on paper is not what people get off on.
Women don't actually follow any code outside of what gives them maximum power and control in a situation. Most men don't see this obvious opportunism in women because we are constantly trying to f*ck them.
These men though, are also the most manipulative.Women have no respect for a sappy white knight tool who wants a "soul mate". ZERO respect. That's why these men endure more abuse and exploitation at the hands of women than any other type of man.
We want women to try to drive us crazy but it's not easy to remain stoic. At some point every man has a breaking point. See Julius Caesar and Cleopatra.
There seems to be a theme running through this thread. Though this has always been a problem, I think the lack of self-control and the need for instant gratification plagues us men more now than it ever has before.True. Physical beauty often blinds many.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yup. When a man learns to control his sex drive, he gets very far.These men though, are also the most manipulative.
There seems to be a theme running through this thread. Though this has always been a problem, I think the lack of self-control and the need for instant gratification plagues us men more now than it ever has before.
A woman's greatest power is her beauty and her body, get past these and things become a lot easier to deal with (to a degree).
As I get older I find myself attracted to different women than I used to.