"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by wolfsbaneforever
The deal is 00Kevin, these are Toronto females you are interacting with. They are the coldest women on the planet. Its not their fault, but Toronto women are very icy.

Damn.. you are so right about that.

If find the ones the offices down town are horney and sluty. But the ones in the greater toronto area just like you called it.

Most of the girls that I get along with are either Italian, Asian or out of town.

Women that flirt are the best!

I went out on a date with an asian chick once and after returning from the washroom she sat down right beside me (pushed herself into me ) and smiled. Now that is what I call proper female behavour.

I don't have time to smash these ***** walls down all the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Yes and no, every girl is different. The thing about showing signals with girls is it's often a subconscious act. Often times they dont realize they're doing it.

Some may be more accustomed to it, and some may not be.
And some go out of their way to stop all their natural signals from showing.
 

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Do you even do anything that get them interested to actually show interest? I have never met a girl that hasn't give a IOI whether on a conscious level or unconscious level.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
And some go out of their way to stop all their natural signals from showing.
Perhaps. Some may just be shy and dont want to take risks. or simply some arent just that into.

Well anyway i've been there where girls dont show signs. Every so often this chick comes in late and sits next to me in class, no signs whatsoever. One day she talks to me and winks continuously as if her eye was twitching...obviously that day she asked me out to coffee but i declined.

Do you even do anything that get them interested to actually show interest? I have never met a girl that hasn't give a IOI whether on a conscious level or unconscious level.
Amen. There should be at least 1 time down the line if a girl is interested will show IOI. Some may be more subtle than others, but keep your eyes opened should it happen...
 

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Sometimes coming off as a stud or a PUA is a fallacy and comes off as try-hard! Some women are smarter than that, and they deserve the credit.

If they are not showing an IOI or giving you signals, than they are not showing you interest and don't want to give you signals... Sometimes BF's complain about the same thing, after they are married, than I find their desperate girlfriends and while we cuddle they tell me how miserable they are.

Your playing your cards all wrong if you think every girl has to give YOU IOI's. They don't have to and that's where your logic fails from your teachings of be the prize, they can recognize the booby prize when they see it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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