"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by wolfsbaneforever
The deal is 00Kevin, these are Toronto females you are interacting with. They are the coldest women on the planet. Its not their fault, but Toronto women are very icy.

Damn.. you are so right about that.

If find the ones the offices down town are horney and sluty. But the ones in the greater toronto area just like you called it.

Most of the girls that I get along with are either Italian, Asian or out of town.

Women that flirt are the best!

I went out on a date with an asian chick once and after returning from the washroom she sat down right beside me (pushed herself into me ) and smiled. Now that is what I call proper female behavour.

I don't have time to smash these ***** walls down all the time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Yes and no, every girl is different. The thing about showing signals with girls is it's often a subconscious act. Often times they dont realize they're doing it.

Some may be more accustomed to it, and some may not be.
And some go out of their way to stop all their natural signals from showing.
 

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Do you even do anything that get them interested to actually show interest? I have never met a girl that hasn't give a IOI whether on a conscious level or unconscious level.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
And some go out of their way to stop all their natural signals from showing.
Perhaps. Some may just be shy and dont want to take risks. or simply some arent just that into.

Well anyway i've been there where girls dont show signs. Every so often this chick comes in late and sits next to me in class, no signs whatsoever. One day she talks to me and winks continuously as if her eye was twitching...obviously that day she asked me out to coffee but i declined.

Do you even do anything that get them interested to actually show interest? I have never met a girl that hasn't give a IOI whether on a conscious level or unconscious level.
Amen. There should be at least 1 time down the line if a girl is interested will show IOI. Some may be more subtle than others, but keep your eyes opened should it happen...
 

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Sometimes coming off as a stud or a PUA is a fallacy and comes off as try-hard! Some women are smarter than that, and they deserve the credit.

If they are not showing an IOI or giving you signals, than they are not showing you interest and don't want to give you signals... Sometimes BF's complain about the same thing, after they are married, than I find their desperate girlfriends and while we cuddle they tell me how miserable they are.

Your playing your cards all wrong if you think every girl has to give YOU IOI's. They don't have to and that's where your logic fails from your teachings of be the prize, they can recognize the booby prize when they see it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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