"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by wolfsbaneforever
The deal is 00Kevin, these are Toronto females you are interacting with. They are the coldest women on the planet. Its not their fault, but Toronto women are very icy.

Damn.. you are so right about that.

If find the ones the offices down town are horney and sluty. But the ones in the greater toronto area just like you called it.

Most of the girls that I get along with are either Italian, Asian or out of town.

Women that flirt are the best!

I went out on a date with an asian chick once and after returning from the washroom she sat down right beside me (pushed herself into me ) and smiled. Now that is what I call proper female behavour.

I don't have time to smash these ***** walls down all the time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Yes and no, every girl is different. The thing about showing signals with girls is it's often a subconscious act. Often times they dont realize they're doing it.

Some may be more accustomed to it, and some may not be.
And some go out of their way to stop all their natural signals from showing.
 

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Do you even do anything that get them interested to actually show interest? I have never met a girl that hasn't give a IOI whether on a conscious level or unconscious level.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
And some go out of their way to stop all their natural signals from showing.
Perhaps. Some may just be shy and dont want to take risks. or simply some arent just that into.

Well anyway i've been there where girls dont show signs. Every so often this chick comes in late and sits next to me in class, no signs whatsoever. One day she talks to me and winks continuously as if her eye was twitching...obviously that day she asked me out to coffee but i declined.

Do you even do anything that get them interested to actually show interest? I have never met a girl that hasn't give a IOI whether on a conscious level or unconscious level.
Amen. There should be at least 1 time down the line if a girl is interested will show IOI. Some may be more subtle than others, but keep your eyes opened should it happen...
 

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Sometimes coming off as a stud or a PUA is a fallacy and comes off as try-hard! Some women are smarter than that, and they deserve the credit.

If they are not showing an IOI or giving you signals, than they are not showing you interest and don't want to give you signals... Sometimes BF's complain about the same thing, after they are married, than I find their desperate girlfriends and while we cuddle they tell me how miserable they are.

Your playing your cards all wrong if you think every girl has to give YOU IOI's. They don't have to and that's where your logic fails from your teachings of be the prize, they can recognize the booby prize when they see it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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