Women discuss hypergamy as a normal dating strategy, but also that it has consequences

[ohrein]

I didn't realize "trading up" was so far in the conscious minds of women. Straight from the horses mouth. Prepare accordingly, gentlemen.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I didn't realize "trading up" was so far in the conscious minds of women. Straight from the horses mouth. Prepare accordingly, gentlemen.

They were very responsible, looked more attractive as they spoke. I was thinking they would be patting women on the backs for tearing through men.

 

[flowtheory]

Just the mindset of women. They always want better! Nothings ever good enough.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Just the mindset of women. They always want better! Nothings ever good enough.

At least those two admitted it's a poor strategy. You see the men figure out what you do and no self respecting man would try to support such a female. He'd fvck and protect his wallet.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Really sharp girls for being quite young. I agree with about everything they said. The Netflix and Chill/swipe left swipe right/FWB/NSA culture has destroyed monogamy and even traditional marriage. There was a time when a man and woman actually tried to make a relationship work, but finding an appropriate partner now is almost nil. Quite sad and kind of depressing.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I would refer everyone to rollos “the pet” post on his blog.

 

[Draper]

F*ck me! Two somewhat redpilled women and they haven't hit the wall yet.
That was refreshing to watch.

 

[Dingo]

Can someone put up the link to the video.... For some reason I cannot watch.

 

[Dingo]

Never mind found it...

Here is a link to a article they referenced : http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...e-I-thought-I-better-Now-Im-childless-42.html

 

[wifehunter]

They were very responsible, looked more attractive as they spoke.

Isn't it amazing how attitude/frame influences looks? Almost magical!

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Monogamy has been going down hill for decades, POF and Tinder just helped it slide along further, I don't it was the catalyst

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Isn't it amazing how attitude/frame ifluences looks? Almost magical!

And what we talk about... I see that.

 

[zekko]

Really sharp girls for being quite young. I agree with about everything they said. The Netflix and Chill/swipe left swipe right/FWB/NSA culture has destroyed monogamy and even traditional marriage. There was a time when a man and woman actually tried to make a relationship work, but finding an appropriate partner now is almost nil. Quite sad and kind of depressing.

I heard this saying the other day, I thought it had some truth to it, although the atheists might find it offensive, or idiotic, or whatever:
"When they took God out of the classroom, the devil went in".
You could apply that to the country as well.

 

[zekko]

I was watching a documentary on Buddy Holly last night. Bear in mind this was the 1950s. He saw a girl he had barely met and asked her on a date. During the date, he handed her a rose and asked her to marry him. The next day he asked permission from her aunt, and informed his family. Two months later they were married.

It struck me that with asking this girl to marry him (practically on first sight), that his odds of success were better in the 50s, than a man living today who does everything in his power to fully screen and vet a potential mate.

Unfortunately of course, they were only married six months before Holly was killed in a plane crash on February 3, 1959.

 

[Poonani Maker]

^^ You'd ALWAYS go to the father or keeper of the gal of your affection and ask for permission to marry her. This is practice from beyond memory, certainly from the books I've read of late (about 12, 400 to 500 pages each on historical fictional romance). 1500s (back in England), 1600s (in the colonies set up in Virginia, North Carolina, etc), 1700s (native-born Americans), 1800s (Civil War and new inventions), 1900s (substantial advancements in tech) until the 1970s, 1980s. My parents married practically the exact same age as well as same month. It was common during their time and before for marriage straight out of high school, people chose and people just went with it Quick. Not much pickiness just realization among many that we don't Live Forever and we don't never not Age.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

'Trading up' was literally unthinkable a generation or so ago. The common paradigm was marriage... or spinsterhood.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I was watching a documentary on Buddy Holly last night. Bear in mind this was the 1950s. He saw a girl he had barely met and asked her on a date. During the date, he handed her a rose and asked her to marry him. The next day he asked permission from her aunt, and informed his family. Two months later they were married.

It struck me that with asking this girl to marry him (practically on first sight), that his odds of success were better in the 50s, than a man living today who does everything in his power to fully screen and vet a potential mate.

Unfortunately of course, they were only married six months before Holly was killed in a plane crash on February 3, 1959.

Well you had to marry for sex. This effectively forced people together at a young age. Ideally, they would grow and develop together in a new family unit.

But today sex is so 'normalized' that it requires no sanction such as marriage. It's become almost as banal as brushing your teeth.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I was watching a documentary on Buddy Holly last night. Bear in mind this was the 1950s. He saw a girl he had barely met and asked her on a date. During the date, he handed her a rose and asked her to marry him. The next day he asked permission from her aunt, and informed his family. Two months later they were married.

It struck me that with asking this girl to marry him (practically on first sight), that his odds of success were better in the 50s, than a man living today who does everything in his power to fully screen and vet a potential mate.

Unfortunately of course, they were only married six months before Holly was killed in a plane crash on February 3, 1959.

I wonder what caused things to change so much in under 3 generations.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Well you had to marry for sex.

Okay that explains it.

 

[sosousage]

so get high musculature and good job then pump and dump girls who think they are securing a good catch - hypergamy is not that bad