Von
Master Don Juan
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Women come clean about Attraction
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
You dont have to be ultra rich, ultra handsome or ultra muscular to slay it with women.
You must love yourself, have a positive abundant mindset, not clingy, not needy, not desperate, no weak boundaries. And be laid back with a careless dont worry I got this under control mentality.
You must love yourself, have a positive abundant mindset, not clingy, not needy, not desperate, no weak boundaries. And be laid back with a careless dont worry I got this under control mentality.
Well that definitely makes more sense than the sh*t he is telling us lol.
I've posted a pic of my face, body and how I dress - all 3 are excellent. I can post a pic of my social circle - it's all good looking/awesome people
here is my paystub from last november - I finished last year at around $170,000
Before you New York and San Fran clowns tell me that 170K is not rich. You can get a beautiful house where I live for 350K. 170K where I live is about 400K in New York city
I'm not lying about anything, dating is insanely hard nowadays
RichardTheFrog
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Where do you live? Is your face pic on this thread? If not, can you tell me what thread it's on so I can save time in looking for it.I've posted a pic of my face, body and how I dress - all 3 are excellent. I can post a pic of my social circle - it's all good looking/awesome people
here is my paystub from last november - I finished last year at around $170,000
Before you New York and San Fran clowns tell me that 170K is not rich. You can get a beautiful house where I live for 350K. 170K where I live is about 400K in New York city
I'm not lying about anything, dating is insanely hard nowadays
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I dunno how the fukk to smile/look happy in pics so please don't judge me on looking overly serious, judge me on my facial features - I think I have a very strong jawline, great facial hair genetics, decent eyes and decent facial structure. I probably lose a couple points for being ethnic instead of purely white and not having a 100% perfect hair line. In real life, I look happy/smile a lot and am very approachable and nice towards everyone
RichardTheFrog
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What would happen if you wore nice clothes, hired a professional photographer, and got on Tinder?I dunno how the fukk to smile/look happy in pics so please don't judge me on looking overly serious, judge me on my facial features - I think I have a very strong jawline, great facial hair genetics, decent eyes and decent facial structure. I probably lose a couple points for being ethnic instead of purely white and not having a 100% perfect hair line. In real life, I look happy/smile a lot and am very approachable and nice towards everyone
I'm definitely not going to advise someone else to pay for sex. I think that's my niche. Haha.
dude that's a pic of me on a sunday chilling at home. When I go out, I dress about as nice as any straight man as you will ever find except for maybe movie stars
I regularly wear $300 shirts like this with incredibly nice jeans, hair and everything looking perfect, muscles bulging out. It doesn't matter too much, women are insanely picky nowadays.
As far as online dating goes, I want to try it but I'm almost positive it will end in disaster and crushed morale.
Online dating nowadays, women want men look like Nick Bateman or Chris Hemsworth. 7/10 females want a 10/10 male, they don't want a measly 7/10 male like myself even if I'm extremely extremely strong in all areas
RichardTheFrog
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What's your age?dude that's a pic of me on a sunday chilling at home. When I go out, I dress about as nice as any straight man as you will ever find except for maybe movie stars
I regularly wear $300 shirts like this with incredibly nice jeans, hair and everything looking perfect, muscles bulging out. It doesn't matter too much, women are insanely picky nowadays.
As far as online dating goes, I want to try it but I'm almost positive it will end in disaster and crushed morale.
Online dating nowadays, women want men look like Nick Bateman or Chris Hemsworth. 7/10 females want a 10/10 male, they don't want a measly 7/10 male like myself even if I'm extremely extremely strong in all areas
So you go out and talk to girls, they just don't want to go home with you?
29. I'm not looking for that, I'm looking for quality females. If I see a slutty female that I could smash with some effort, I walk away
I want an attractive, very high class, intelligent, quality woman because that's the kind of man I am...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LilaCatLover
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As a woman myself I think looks are most overrated. Rich attracts a lot of bad women - it seems mostly useful for guys who can distinguis good from bad women well. Having a social life up to the point of at least meeting women does seem nessecary. So far the best scoring men I knew all weren't extremely good looking, they were quite average and one was extremely fat. Neither were they rich. All were very confident, good talkers, hit up a LOT of women, talked with them with ease. Most acted extremely arrogant, or confident. I would rate all but one as fairly sly/smooth.
The best PUA that hit me up actually knew how to trigger feelings in me, even while I did knew he was gaming me and saw his tactics. He knew how to bond extremely fast, which I never have seen before. I didnt inmediately realize he was faking some things. He was very clever in creating situatons that made us seem similar, but kept them different enough not to realize he copycatted and bended them. Screwd guy. I've gamed as a guy online for fun, so I know how PUA works quite well, its very effective. As a woman its a really strange thing to experience how badly you realize how your attraction works - to realize attraction does come from the subconscious mostly. I tested this thing from two sides - would love to understand myself better.
Secuding women is a psychological thing, mostly. I find it highly fascinating. I'm fascinated by all subconscious manipulation things. It seems to be all conscious vs subconscious, left vs right brain.
Anyway, I hope you dont mind that as a woman I joined this forum. I have a lot of respect for guys that try to boost their dating life - I know this society can be hard on men dating.