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Master Don Juan
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He's unactractive.So if big Dave isn't lying then poor game negates money looks and status. Muahh haww haww case closed.
Case closed
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
He's unactractive.So if big Dave isn't lying then poor game negates money looks and status. Muahh haww haww case closed.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well that definitely makes more sense than the sh*t he is telling us lol.Or he’s lying. He’s not rich, he’s not good looking and he has no status
I've posted a pic of my face, body and how I dress - all 3 are excellent. I can post a pic of my social circle - it's all good looking/awesome peopleOr he’s lying. He’s not rich, he’s not good looking and he has no status
Where do you live? Is your face pic on this thread? If not, can you tell me what thread it's on so I can save time in looking for it.I've posted a pic of my face, body and how I dress - all 3 are excellent. I can post a pic of my social circle - it's all good looking/awesome people
here is my paystub from last november - I finished last year at around $170,000
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Before you New York and San Fran clowns tell me that 170K is not rich. You can get a beautiful house where I live for 350K. 170K where I live is about 400K in New York city
I'm not lying about anything, dating is insanely hard nowadays
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I dunno how the fukk to smile/look happy in pics so please don't judge me on looking overly serious, judge me on my facial features - I think I have a very strong jawline, great facial hair genetics, decent eyes and decent facial structure. I probably lose a couple points for being ethnic instead of purely white and not having a 100% perfect hair line. In real life, I look happy/smile a lot and am very approachable and nice towards everyoneWhere do you live? Is your face pic on this thread? If not, can you tell me what thread it's on so I can save time in looking for it.
What would happen if you wore nice clothes, hired a professional photographer, and got on Tinder?I dunno how the fukk to smile/look happy in pics so please don't judge me on looking overly serious, judge me on my facial features - I think I have a very strong jawline, great facial hair genetics, decent eyes and decent facial structure. I probably lose a couple points for being ethnic instead of purely white and not having a 100% perfect hair line. In real life, I look happy/smile a lot and am very approachable and nice towards everyone
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dude that's a pic of me on a sunday chilling at home. When I go out, I dress about as nice as any straight man as you will ever find except for maybe movie starsWhat would happen if you wore nice clothes, hired a professional photographer, and got on Tinder?
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What's your age?dude that's a pic of me on a sunday chilling at home. When I go out, I dress about as nice as any straight man as you will ever find except for maybe movie stars
I regularly wear $300 shirts like this with incredibly nice jeans, hair and everything looking perfect, muscles bulging out. It doesn't matter too much, women are insanely picky nowadays.
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As far as online dating goes, I want to try it but I'm almost positive it will end in disaster and crushed morale.
Online dating nowadays, women want men look like Nick Bateman or Chris Hemsworth. 7/10 females want a 10/10 male, they don't want a measly 7/10 male like myself even if I'm extremely extremely strong in all areas
What's your age?
So you go out and talk to girls, they just don't want to go home with you?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
As a woman myself I think looks are most overrated. Rich attracts a lot of bad women - it seems mostly useful for guys who can distinguis good from bad women well. Having a social life up to the point of at least meeting women does seem nessecary. So far the best scoring men I knew all weren't extremely good looking, they were quite average and one was extremely fat. Neither were they rich. All were very confident, good talkers, hit up a LOT of women, talked with them with ease. Most acted extremely arrogant, or confident. I would rate all but one as fairly sly/smooth.I am good looking dude. Good looking, rich and great social circle automatically = status
I have all 3 and I have non existent dating life