"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women change as they raise children

jhonny9546

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How did women change after giving birth and having their baby? How did it go after 1 year, 2 years, and 3 years?

It's said that women change a lot after the baby is born, mainly because he can't speak and she has to communicate with him through her emotions and moods. So, if a woman focuses on these things, she'll also change in other areas of her life. For example, she'll want a man who's less "rough" and more "supportive" and "nurturing."

But it's only a short period.
Many of my friends who have become fathers have told me that after 1 year, or when the child begins to speak well and walk, the mother changes and becomes very detached from the child again, seeking "love" and satisfaction with men again.

So there is like a period which she becomes really "motherly" and forget everything else around her, but as soon that role is done, she want to repeat that process, or just become what she was before.
You would certainly have many women who sought you out before becoming mothers, and who now, are mothers and have forgotten about you, but who as soon as they "return to their role" come looking for you again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BaronOfHair

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Everyone "changes" in response to external events, producing offspring included. Women experience physiological changes/sometimes physiological trauma during the course of doing so though. THAT's what's different
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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