"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women change as they raise children

jhonny9546

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How did women change after giving birth and having their baby? How did it go after 1 year, 2 years, and 3 years?

It's said that women change a lot after the baby is born, mainly because he can't speak and she has to communicate with him through her emotions and moods. So, if a woman focuses on these things, she'll also change in other areas of her life. For example, she'll want a man who's less "rough" and more "supportive" and "nurturing."

But it's only a short period.
Many of my friends who have become fathers have told me that after 1 year, or when the child begins to speak well and walk, the mother changes and becomes very detached from the child again, seeking "love" and satisfaction with men again.

So there is like a period which she becomes really "motherly" and forget everything else around her, but as soon that role is done, she want to repeat that process, or just become what she was before.
You would certainly have many women who sought you out before becoming mothers, and who now, are mothers and have forgotten about you, but who as soon as they "return to their role" come looking for you again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Everyone "changes" in response to external events, producing offspring included. Women experience physiological changes/sometimes physiological trauma during the course of doing so though. THAT's what's different
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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