"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women change as they raise children

jhonny9546

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How did women change after giving birth and having their baby? How did it go after 1 year, 2 years, and 3 years?

It's said that women change a lot after the baby is born, mainly because he can't speak and she has to communicate with him through her emotions and moods. So, if a woman focuses on these things, she'll also change in other areas of her life. For example, she'll want a man who's less "rough" and more "supportive" and "nurturing."

But it's only a short period.
Many of my friends who have become fathers have told me that after 1 year, or when the child begins to speak well and walk, the mother changes and becomes very detached from the child again, seeking "love" and satisfaction with men again.

So there is like a period which she becomes really "motherly" and forget everything else around her, but as soon that role is done, she want to repeat that process, or just become what she was before.
You would certainly have many women who sought you out before becoming mothers, and who now, are mothers and have forgotten about you, but who as soon as they "return to their role" come looking for you again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everyone "changes" in response to external events, producing offspring included. Women experience physiological changes/sometimes physiological trauma during the course of doing so though. THAT's what's different
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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