nismo-4
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I destroyed a couple last night. I'm not your mate nor am I their's.
Have a nice day. #micdrop
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Women cancelling after the confirmation?
- Thread starter Knight of Roses
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Have a nice day. #micdrop
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
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You guys are dumb retards, all of you, and I intend this insult to be taken at no offense, because it is truth, and once you realize that you're dumb you will improve yourselves. The problem is texting in the first place. I see this sh1t to be a fad in United States, my mother sends a text all the time to me and her friends, and expects a response. Truth is, texts don't mean sh1t. Ok, you have the cell phone in your pocket, a phone call means you will pick it up, a text is just a chime and vibe in your pocket, you don't have to read it at all, there is no importance to a text.
Separate your important stuff from none important, and use voice or video for your important stuff. Schudle a date is important, call her up, or use voice messaging in whatsapp. Confirm a date is important, call her up.
Make it a fvcking rule for yourselves for 2 weeks to go without texting. If you receive a text, give a call back, talk. If its in whatapp respond with a voice message.
Separate your important stuff from none important, and use voice or video for your important stuff. Schudle a date is important, call her up, or use voice messaging in whatsapp. Confirm a date is important, call her up.
Make it a fvcking rule for yourselves for 2 weeks to go without texting. If you receive a text, give a call back, talk. If its in whatapp respond with a voice message.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Are you three? You sound like child.
You messaged me. You quoted me. You cannot argue nor rationalise anything but being chicken **** scared.
Pic or did not happen.
I vascillate on the confirming dates thing. The one thing I will definitely say is that one should never ask if you are still meeting or some variation thereof.
If you feel you need confirmation, always use humor or ****y banter to indirectly get a read if she is interested in showing.
For example, if you are going to play pool you send a message in the morning like “You ready to get your butt kicked tonight?”
This avoids the needy question of are we still on and it gives you an idea of her interest level/flake likeliness without losing frame.
As for not confirming, I’ve always looked at each situation individually because for me it depends how the women interprets my presentation of myself.
If you feel you need confirmation, always use humor or ****y banter to indirectly get a read if she is interested in showing.
For example, if you are going to play pool you send a message in the morning like “You ready to get your butt kicked tonight?”
This avoids the needy question of are we still on and it gives you an idea of her interest level/flake likeliness without losing frame.
As for not confirming, I’ve always looked at each situation individually because for me it depends how the women interprets my presentation of myself.