nismo-4
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I destroyed a couple last night. I'm not your mate nor am I their's.
Have a nice day. #micdrop
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Women cancelling after the confirmation?
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Have a nice day. #micdrop
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backseatjuan
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You guys are dumb retards, all of you, and I intend this insult to be taken at no offense, because it is truth, and once you realize that you're dumb you will improve yourselves. The problem is texting in the first place. I see this sh1t to be a fad in United States, my mother sends a text all the time to me and her friends, and expects a response. Truth is, texts don't mean sh1t. Ok, you have the cell phone in your pocket, a phone call means you will pick it up, a text is just a chime and vibe in your pocket, you don't have to read it at all, there is no importance to a text.
Separate your important stuff from none important, and use voice or video for your important stuff. Schudle a date is important, call her up, or use voice messaging in whatsapp. Confirm a date is important, call her up.
Make it a fvcking rule for yourselves for 2 weeks to go without texting. If you receive a text, give a call back, talk. If its in whatapp respond with a voice message.
Separate your important stuff from none important, and use voice or video for your important stuff. Schudle a date is important, call her up, or use voice messaging in whatsapp. Confirm a date is important, call her up.
Make it a fvcking rule for yourselves for 2 weeks to go without texting. If you receive a text, give a call back, talk. If its in whatapp respond with a voice message.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Are you three? You sound like child.
You messaged me. You quoted me. You cannot argue nor rationalise anything but being chicken **** scared.
Pic or did not happen.
I vascillate on the confirming dates thing. The one thing I will definitely say is that one should never ask if you are still meeting or some variation thereof.
If you feel you need confirmation, always use humor or ****y banter to indirectly get a read if she is interested in showing.
For example, if you are going to play pool you send a message in the morning like “You ready to get your butt kicked tonight?”
This avoids the needy question of are we still on and it gives you an idea of her interest level/flake likeliness without losing frame.
As for not confirming, I’ve always looked at each situation individually because for me it depends how the women interprets my presentation of myself.
If you feel you need confirmation, always use humor or ****y banter to indirectly get a read if she is interested in showing.
For example, if you are going to play pool you send a message in the morning like “You ready to get your butt kicked tonight?”
This avoids the needy question of are we still on and it gives you an idea of her interest level/flake likeliness without losing frame.
As for not confirming, I’ve always looked at each situation individually because for me it depends how the women interprets my presentation of myself.