Especially younger ones.
The good thing is, if you pay attention it's easy to spot most of the time. You can then make the conscious choice whether to avoid her altogether, or use the situation to YOUR benefit.
I get a text yesterday from a younger chick I banged a few years ago who is going to school about 3 hours away. Off and on she hits me up trying to get me to drive down to see her.
chick- [city where she attends school] is calling your name!
str8- Calling my name huh? What exactly is it saying?
chick- [name of chick] needs an old friend, I guess.
str8- Why, what's new?
chick- Just got back from vacation and broke up with b/f.
str8- He wasn't right for you anyway. (I had no idea who the b/f was....I was being facetious)
chick- And that is why I love you str8, thanks for that
We went back and forth a couple more times, and I tell her I might be in that area on business in a few weeks but I don't know if I'll be able to see her, and that until then she should eat a bunch of ice cream and listen to some cheesy 80's love songs and she'll feel better. She uses the word "friend" again before the end of the convo.
So what she is telling me is that she wants me to come give her some attention, but the "friend" thing was her disclaimer that she isn't interested in hooking up.
When I was a snot nosed punk 10-15 years ago i would have jumped at the opportunity to have a 1 in 100 chance of getting laid because I didn't realize the odds were so low. I would have just assumed that since we had fukked in the past, that it was in the bag.
I am actually going to be headed down that way in a few weeks, but I know two other chicks in the area that I might try to set something up with. If both of those fall through I might try to get a free place to crash for the night from the college chick.
It's just good to know that when you are able to recognize the situation for what it is, you can go in without expectations and use it for your own benefit.
Some would say to completely avoid her, but with zero emotional attachment and the ability to leave your d!ck and your ego out of the equation you can go into an interaction like this without negative consequences.
It's great to know what makes women tick....
The good thing is, if you pay attention it's easy to spot most of the time. You can then make the conscious choice whether to avoid her altogether, or use the situation to YOUR benefit.
I get a text yesterday from a younger chick I banged a few years ago who is going to school about 3 hours away. Off and on she hits me up trying to get me to drive down to see her.
chick- [city where she attends school] is calling your name!
str8- Calling my name huh? What exactly is it saying?
chick- [name of chick] needs an old friend, I guess.
str8- Why, what's new?
chick- Just got back from vacation and broke up with b/f.
str8- He wasn't right for you anyway. (I had no idea who the b/f was....I was being facetious)
chick- And that is why I love you str8, thanks for that
We went back and forth a couple more times, and I tell her I might be in that area on business in a few weeks but I don't know if I'll be able to see her, and that until then she should eat a bunch of ice cream and listen to some cheesy 80's love songs and she'll feel better. She uses the word "friend" again before the end of the convo.
So what she is telling me is that she wants me to come give her some attention, but the "friend" thing was her disclaimer that she isn't interested in hooking up.
When I was a snot nosed punk 10-15 years ago i would have jumped at the opportunity to have a 1 in 100 chance of getting laid because I didn't realize the odds were so low. I would have just assumed that since we had fukked in the past, that it was in the bag.
I am actually going to be headed down that way in a few weeks, but I know two other chicks in the area that I might try to set something up with. If both of those fall through I might try to get a free place to crash for the night from the college chick.
It's just good to know that when you are able to recognize the situation for what it is, you can go in without expectations and use it for your own benefit.
Some would say to completely avoid her, but with zero emotional attachment and the ability to leave your d!ck and your ego out of the equation you can go into an interaction like this without negative consequences.
It's great to know what makes women tick....
