Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women can be online predators as well

Findog

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Findog

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I don't think it's a big deal that he plays a somewhat nerdy card game. I also don't think it's a big deal that she found his hobby off-putting and didn't want to continue getting to know him. I think we all have made a hasty judgment a time or two within the first few dates to break things off, so I'd be a hypocrite to call her out for that.

What I think is a really sh*tty **** move on her part is using it as a basis for writing a post about it on a tech blog that generates quite a bit of traffic and page views, to call this guy names and denigrate him and his hobby in a snide way. I think it's a violation of his privacy.
 

Inquisitus

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Findog said:
What I think is a really sh*tty **** move on her part is using it as a basis for writing a post about it on a tech blog that generates quite a bit of traffic and page views, to call this guy names and denigrate him and his hobby in a snide way. I think it's a violation of his privacy.
Unless she's writing under a pseudonym, then she's outed herself as clueless *****. The guy probably doesn't care very much. He's living the life that he wants.

As the saying goes... better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt
 

Sal Ceech

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was gonna initiate a new thread(1st time post)when I saw this ....

Well I have lurked here for quite awhile ... I see the BPD have generated a good chunk of discussions .... "Online Predator" ??? here,s one for the pile


beatricemacevedo.blogspot.com, ... LMAO a couple of theme songs from these ones would be Airborne Toxic Event : Sometime around midnight or Fleetwood Mac : Gold dust woman ( especially in the chorus )
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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She's ugly as sin and thus irrelevant beyond a light chuckle that she apparently doesn't know she doesn't have the market value to be such a disgusting cvnt.
 
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