"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women can be online predators as well

Findog

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Findog

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I don't think it's a big deal that he plays a somewhat nerdy card game. I also don't think it's a big deal that she found his hobby off-putting and didn't want to continue getting to know him. I think we all have made a hasty judgment a time or two within the first few dates to break things off, so I'd be a hypocrite to call her out for that.

What I think is a really sh*tty **** move on her part is using it as a basis for writing a post about it on a tech blog that generates quite a bit of traffic and page views, to call this guy names and denigrate him and his hobby in a snide way. I think it's a violation of his privacy.
 

Inquisitus

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Findog said:
What I think is a really sh*tty **** move on her part is using it as a basis for writing a post about it on a tech blog that generates quite a bit of traffic and page views, to call this guy names and denigrate him and his hobby in a snide way. I think it's a violation of his privacy.
Unless she's writing under a pseudonym, then she's outed herself as clueless *****. The guy probably doesn't care very much. He's living the life that he wants.

As the saying goes... better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt
 

Sal Ceech

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was gonna initiate a new thread(1st time post)when I saw this ....

Well I have lurked here for quite awhile ... I see the BPD have generated a good chunk of discussions .... "Online Predator" ??? here,s one for the pile


beatricemacevedo.blogspot.com, ... LMAO a couple of theme songs from these ones would be Airborne Toxic Event : Sometime around midnight or Fleetwood Mac : Gold dust woman ( especially in the chorus )
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrRuckus

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She's ugly as sin and thus irrelevant beyond a light chuckle that she apparently doesn't know she doesn't have the market value to be such a disgusting cvnt.
 
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