"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women can be online predators as well

Findog

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Findog

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I don't think it's a big deal that he plays a somewhat nerdy card game. I also don't think it's a big deal that she found his hobby off-putting and didn't want to continue getting to know him. I think we all have made a hasty judgment a time or two within the first few dates to break things off, so I'd be a hypocrite to call her out for that.

What I think is a really sh*tty **** move on her part is using it as a basis for writing a post about it on a tech blog that generates quite a bit of traffic and page views, to call this guy names and denigrate him and his hobby in a snide way. I think it's a violation of his privacy.
 

Inquisitus

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Findog said:
What I think is a really sh*tty **** move on her part is using it as a basis for writing a post about it on a tech blog that generates quite a bit of traffic and page views, to call this guy names and denigrate him and his hobby in a snide way. I think it's a violation of his privacy.
Unless she's writing under a pseudonym, then she's outed herself as clueless *****. The guy probably doesn't care very much. He's living the life that he wants.

As the saying goes... better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt
 

Sal Ceech

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was gonna initiate a new thread(1st time post)when I saw this ....

Well I have lurked here for quite awhile ... I see the BPD have generated a good chunk of discussions .... "Online Predator" ??? here,s one for the pile


beatricemacevedo.blogspot.com, ... LMAO a couple of theme songs from these ones would be Airborne Toxic Event : Sometime around midnight or Fleetwood Mac : Gold dust woman ( especially in the chorus )
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

mrRuckus

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She's ugly as sin and thus irrelevant beyond a light chuckle that she apparently doesn't know she doesn't have the market value to be such a disgusting cvnt.
 
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