"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women becoming fake bi-lesbian due to male hate?

Eddie3232

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Not sure how this is prevalent in the US and Europe but it's usual in my country in the higher earning part of society (i live in the global south). What do you guys think of this? It's simply nuts how many under 21 girls suddenly think they are bisexual or are actually bi but jump to the lesbian side in a very major way, only having stuff with few guys or even rejecting guys for LTRs altogether. It all seems like hate for chads or naturals or tyrones or whatever kind of guy who stomps them all over the floor and leave or even a more like rejection of real male personalities (now labeled as toxic masculinity). What the **** is this and what do you guys think of this shift?

Important to note how trans/trap woman/people (depends on worldview) use that to **** 3-5 7s to 10s late teen girls a week with no effort using IG or kissing 10 girls in a party. I've seen this ****. It's likely a escape to male-hater young girls to have the D without dealing with traditional alpha males. These trannies usually do that calling themselves lesbian/sa p hian and presenting themselves as "of 30 people i pull 27 i kiss are girls, 3 guys" "i hate guys and love feminine people" "i hate guys and very rarely kiss them"
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think it’s political. My Zoomer ex- was a big alphabet person supporte she said she wished she were a lesbian (to be a ‘rebel’). But she loved Fvcking too much. So, she never made the switch.
 

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I've noticed a lot of women are bisexual now and use men for boats, and taking on lavish vacations. I know two women who only date women now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Women act like lesbians as a form of male hate. I can write a book on this and feminists and lesbians will still argue with me that it's wrong. Seen enough lesbians crush on a guy or cheat on their "girlfriend". This happens with gay males, too, but it's far different for women.
 

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Sandman has this video which offers some answers:

 

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Not sure how this is prevalent in the US and Europe but it's usual in my country in the higher earning part of society (i live in the global south). What do you guys think of this? It's simply nuts how many under 21 girls suddenly think they are bisexual or are actually bi but jump to the lesbian side in a very major way, only having stuff with few guys or even rejecting guys for LTRs altogether.
This is all about the push promoting LGBTQ values over the last several decades. They started out simply wanting rights, but it's gone way beyond that now. They are (whether intentional or not) indoctrinating young children to identify as LGBTQ, and the percentages of young people identifying as such have skyrocketed as a result. Young women seem to be especially susceptible to this. Just what women need, more options, right?

I heard a bizarre stat the other day, can't remember it exactly. But it was something like 4% of young adults identified as gay or bisexual, yet their sex lives were exclusively heterosexual. Apparently being LGBTQ is a desirable thing among young people these days, because in today's culture the unconventional is rewarded. From the looks of things, this is only going to increase in the near future. Unfortunately, this kind of thing is not healthy, neither for the moral fabric of our society, nor for the preservation of the species, nor even for the people themselves who buy into it.
 

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It's worse than that. Again, Im in a hobby that has a crossover of a lot of young people and older people. And theres's a lot of high schoolers and even middle schoolers looking like your typical dyke. It's honestly scary. Young art types use to still look normal and did not get into a rebellious stage until like late high school. These days, they are starting as early as elementary with the fade cut haircuts and masculine clothing. Where is the father to stop this?
 

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These days, they are starting as early as elementary with the fade cut haircuts and masculine clothing. Where is the father to stop this?
Well yeah, Disney has admitted to pushing LGBTQ content into programming for two year olds on up. They are starting them young these days. As for the father, as you well know the input of cisgender males (especially if white) is not welcome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's probably for attention, there is zero biological benefit to be homosexual
Incorrect according to one psychology paper I read.

The theory is that ladies who are more sexually fluid tend to do better because, if they need to they can share an alpha instead of being stuck with a beta.

Note, this does not mean that the two are correlated (sexually fluid and being with an alpha).

It only explains why being sexually fluid is more common in women than in men.

I would say it's not due to male hate, only due to massive male beta-ness on planet Earth.

Kind of like a subconscious, sexual-biological backup plan for a different reason it evolved.
 

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The theory is that ladies who are more sexually fluid tend to do better because, if they need to they can share an alpha instead of being stuck with a beta.

Note, this does not mean that the two are correlated (sexually fluid and being with an alpha).

It only explains why being sexually fluid is more common in women than in men.
See, I've always thought women were more likely to buy into lesbianism because women are more sexually appealing, they have greater beauty. I know guys here absolutely dispute that idea however, they think they are just as sexy as any woman. But I mean c'mon, look at the female body, it's built for sex, and to be appealing to the eye. Women have beauty, and men have strength, that's the main difference between the sexes.

Also, the nature of femininity means that women can find softness, caring, and nurturing in each other's company. Whereas men don't really have this to offer each other so much, at least not so readily.

You might also argue that women are more natural followers, so when they are told LGBTQ is the way to be, and you have to buy into this or else you are a hateful bigot, they just believe what they are told and set about doing it. Men are more likely to question.
 
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